"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mentioning that you’re dating multiple women will make you a ‘bad guy’ these days

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I just posted some content at one of my Military Veteran groups and I mentioned that I was talking to multiple women and I got some backlash over it. I started getting some haters and started getting lectured why it ain’t right. I told them I follow The Bro code of only talking to single women, that I look for Christian and good people, and I will only get physical with them only if we’re hitched, and they just laughed at me. Both women and some femnazi white knights of a male. It seems like society wants total submission and wants men to be women’s b:tches and Men are second class citizens and can’t catch a break. What do you guy’s think of this?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I don't bother going on relationships forums or reddit, it's a bunch of fraudlent people virtue signaling to appear better than they are
Also when i use to be super red pill (I belive in doing it like you although I stumble) I use to not talk to people about it in person as most people lacked nuance to understand intericate topics like these
 

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No it won't.

And if you are that afraid to be a grown man that doesn't simp to what a woman demands of you then you will simply be a doormat for her anyway.
 

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I haven't found this to be true. F-ckboys who center their entire lives around bedding skanks are viewed with disdain, nonetheless that's nothing new
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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BillyPilgrim

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Wanna know what makes you really unattractive?

Complaining that the world won't validate how you want to live your life.
Man, those American Founding Fathers were some ugly mofo's.

Too bad the world doesn't evolve without people pointing out BS.

Sorry if that ruffles your feathers dude. :rofl:
 

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I just posted some content at one of my Military Veteran groups and I mentioned that I was talking to multiple women and I got some backlash over it. I started getting some haters and started getting lectured why it ain’t right. I told them I follow The Bro code of only talking to single women, that I look for Christian and good people, and I will only get physical with them only if we’re hitched, and they just laughed at me. Both women and some femnazi white knights of a male. It seems like society wants total submission and wants men to be women’s b:tches and Men are second class citizens and can’t catch a break. What do you guy’s think of this?
You are TALKING to multiple women and people are upset you are TALKING. We believe in no sex until marriage. People won't even consider that dating. Talking is not dating. You could talk to multiple AI girlfriends. Are people going to get upset that you are choosing to talk to real women rather than tech? I don't get that. People should be encouraging you are talking to real human being women.
 

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I don't bother going on relationships forums or reddit, it's a bunch of fraudlent people virtue signaling to appear better than they are
Also when i use to be super red pill (I belive in doing it like you although I stumble) I use to not talk to people about it in person as most people lacked nuance to understand intericate topics like these
It's generally not a good idea to discuss anything "red pill" with people who are not your close friends. Especially in a group settings. These types of discussions inevitably bring out the white knights, who see them as an invitation to virtue-signal.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What do you guy’s think of this?
A VETERAN's group no less? What a bunch of PVSSIES! Seriously! The last vet group I have been into could care less if you are a complete loser and get nothing right; you're THEIR loser and they'll do what they can to help you figure life out. They could care less if you have 2 S T Is and spread them with reckless abandon like an arshhole. He's THEIR arschhole. At least that's how a Vets group SHOULD be IMHO.

Sometimes all we've got is each other. Sometimes all we have is ourselves. Although, to be fair there IS something to be said about restraint in discussing overtly "red pill" stuff. Even my 'close' friends tend to crab in the bucket me in that regard. It's stupid. They can have their drvg addictions and/or jobs they hate.

Having multiple women you talk to or dating several people at the same time is not even immoral. I'd just leave it at that. If that's "red" pill, then hell. Seems like they're obsessing over what you are when they should remember something else FIRST. Same blood, same mud. Or sand. You get the fvcking point. They're vets, you're a vet.

IDK man, have you tried saying "you guys are effing poo-zays?" If they send you off or you wind up walking because they can't stomach those words, you've likely found the most soybeaned estrogen infused lickspittle bullet dodging wonders of miracles who made it through boot camp and a deployment I've ever fvcking heard of! HOLY CHR1ST!
 

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HI Travels,
"I follow The Bro code of only talking to single women"...What is this Brothers Code you refer to?
 

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No dating married or women in relationships. I know it sounds so basic, but basic morals these days are slowly dwindling.
You will only know if they choose to disclose that. There are a significant number of women who are dating guys that are in one of those categories.
 

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Let this be a lesson: sometimes it's better to exercise self-control and resist the urge to share everything publicly rather than blabbing about whatever is on your mind.

Discretion matters. Whether online or in real life, discussing topics such as your dating life or love affairs with others often invites unnecessary opinions, criticism, and drama. It not only helps you avoid looking foolish if things don't work out, but it also spares the women involved from having to answer unnecessary questions or deal with unwanted attention.

There is a saying in my country that loosely translates to, "He who eats with their mouth shut gets to eats twice." The idea is that when you keep your affairs to yourself, you're more likely to continue enjoying them. The more people know about your personal life, especially your dating or sex life, the more likely they are to interfere, judge, gossip, create drama, or complicate things unnecessarily.

Some things are simply better kept private.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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