MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
An inconclusive story. Thanks.bbestar said:
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
An inconclusive story. Thanks.bbestar said:
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Tangent, but the more fat I lose, the less I enjoy soft comfy stuff in general. At 235-285 I very comfortably sunk into couches and chairs. At 210-215 right now, I no longer "sink in" as much, and I enjoy firmer surfaces more - I.E. back then I would have preferred to sit in a Lexus or a Cadillac, while now I'm more into the feel of a BMW or Audi seat.Jariel said:I agree. I also think general comfort and laziness can be blamed too. Most of us in Western society have it so fvcking easy! Many, maybe even most men, sleep in a comfortable bed, sit in comfortable chairs, work under safe and comfortable conditions, relax in front of the TV, console, computer etc. A man who visits a gym regularly is rare enough, but even gyms are warm, comfortable and have showers and facilities.
No need for me to do a search, because you are making stories up as usual. Put that in context, and a lot of the time, I am stating that living that "pimp" life is all good in the movies, but does not grant you happiness in life, as I have lived it and know for myself. Sorry If I got you all razzed up. Last time I checked, it was my advice that gained me respect over the years, trying to help people, and have many thanks for it also. Last time I checked, you were being abused over bitter hatred of everything you post about. Dont get me confused with yourself. Are you really 31?( . )( . ) said:Dunno, didnt some guy call you out for being a whiny b!tch after your diablo tantrum and how you post crap, telling you to stick to boxing threads or some sh!t. Do a search, like this (wasnt really a "search" though, your a self proclaimed star in all your posts)
What tap who?
Huh tap tap when?
Justify when who?
Qualify how, tap who?
I usually ignore your sh!t though after reading the first 5 or 6 posts you made declaring how awesome you are back when I first came here. So lets move on Tiger and go back to how things were eh? And like I said when I need you to un-"bitter" me and sh!t I'll send you a pm or something.
You didnt, you responded to my post remember tard? :crazy:CLOONEY said:. Sorry If I got you all razzed up.
Heres your problem, nobody gives a fvck. You can harp on how awesome you are until the cows come home , underlying fact is its the internet. And why are you trying to win e-respect anyway?CLOONEY said:Last time I checked, it was my advice that gained me respect over the years
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Underlying fact is, why do you post? Because nobody listens to advice you give, because you have no respect.......and........for a very good reason! I guess you post simply to releive your frustrations of all that has gone wrong in your life and the fact that you cant get over that!( . )( . ) said:You didnt, you responded to my post remember tard? :crazy:
Heres your problem, nobody gives a fvck. You can harp on how awesome you are until the cows come home , underlying fact is its the internet. And why are you trying to win e-respect anyway?
Stir up insecure and transparent douches like yourself?CLOONEY said:Underlying fact is, why do you post?
Now thats just below the belt, you want me to lose sleep? But seriously your half right I dont have much respect....for you, but dont have a teary over it theres probably only a handful of guys here whos POSTS I respect as guys who "get it".CLOONEY said:Because nobody listens to advice you give, because you have no respect
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Yap yap yap fvck me dead man put it to bed. Just cross off Diablo's name for mine or something in your next whine to the mods post, get a petition for a banning happening you even got jariella (surprise suprise) backing up the gay train in full force so theres one right there, hell I'll even sign it if you stfu.CLOONEY said:I have also seen people banned for a LOT less.
hahaha. For some reason, I just cant beleive you are 31( . )( . ) said:Yap yap yap fvck me dead man put it to bed. Just cross off Diablo's name for mine or something in your next whine to the mods post, get a petition for a banning happening you even got jariella (surprise suprise) backing up the gay train in full force so theres one right there, hell I'll even sign it if you stfu.
Yeah ok man dont dwell on it too much, its not gonna change by you saying it a 4th time either.CLOONEY said:hahaha. For some reason, I just cant beleive you are 31![]()
CLOONEY said:Underlying fact is, why do you post? Because nobody listens to advice you give,
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I love you!Warboss Alex said:Test levels have dropped because guys don't want to lift heavy weights because they'd crease their metrosexual pink wifebeaters if they put a bar across their shoulders or are too scared of 'getting big', and have been fed into the government guidelines of high carb, low fat diets.. whereas it's the fat in your diet that actually keeps your hormone levels high (including test).