MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
An inconclusive story. Thanks.bbestar said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Men's testosterone levels
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Tangent, but the more fat I lose, the less I enjoy soft comfy stuff in general. At 235-285 I very comfortably sunk into couches and chairs. At 210-215 right now, I no longer "sink in" as much, and I enjoy firmer surfaces more - I.E. back then I would have preferred to sit in a Lexus or a Cadillac, while now I'm more into the feel of a BMW or Audi seat.Jariel said:
No need for me to do a search, because you are making stories up as usual. Put that in context, and a lot of the time, I am stating that living that "pimp" life is all good in the movies, but does not grant you happiness in life, as I have lived it and know for myself. Sorry If I got you all razzed up. Last time I checked, it was my advice that gained me respect over the years, trying to help people, and have many thanks for it also. Last time I checked, you were being abused over bitter hatred of everything you post about. Dont get me confused with yourself. Are you really 31?( . )( . ) said:
For someone who ignores me, you sure seem to know a bit about me
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
I've seen the studies and I wont pretend to know the science behind it, but if I were to venture an opinion I'd say that if you tracked the levels of obesity and our increasingly sedentary lifestyles since 1980 you'd see a correlation with this drop in testosterone. When you take into consideration that children are becoming obese at earlier ages now with all the reasons for this increase and you weigh this against their hormonal development when they reach puberty you'll see a stunting in this hormonal development. Take into account also that American women have become increasingly more fat in recent years and with this comes a decreased 'actual arousal' (meaning real sex, not porno) level.
Strenuous exercise has been proven in many studies to stimulate endocrine, endorphine and hormonal release in the body (think 'runners high'). With decreased activity levels, the healthy release of hormones becomes atrophied.
Personally, I work out 4 times a week and put 30 minute cardio sessions in on my off days and I'm just as horny now as I was in my 20's. I have regular sex with a beautiful wife and even this has it's health benefits.
Strenuous exercise has been proven in many studies to stimulate endocrine, endorphine and hormonal release in the body (think 'runners high'). With decreased activity levels, the healthy release of hormones becomes atrophied.
Personally, I work out 4 times a week and put 30 minute cardio sessions in on my off days and I'm just as horny now as I was in my 20's. I have regular sex with a beautiful wife and even this has it's health benefits.
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You didnt, you responded to my post remember tard? :crazy:CLOONEY said:
Heres your problem, nobody gives a fvck. You can harp on how awesome you are until the cows come home , underlying fact is its the internet. And why are you trying to win e-respect anyway?CLOONEY said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Underlying fact is, why do you post? Because nobody listens to advice you give, because you have no respect.......and........for a very good reason! I guess you post simply to releive your frustrations of all that has gone wrong in your life and the fact that you cant get over that!( . )( . ) said:
Your a bitter dude, just let it go and see what is good about the world! There is plenty that is, once you allow yourself to see it.
Warboss Alex
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red meat, eggs, regular exercise, none of this 'low fat' ****, hard, high-rep leg training and regularly watch porno if you don't get any (serious suggestion) and you'll be more than fine.
Test levels have dropped because guys don't want to lift heavy weights because they'd crease their metrosexual pink wifebeaters if they put a bar across their shoulders or are too scared of 'getting big', and have been fed into the government guidelines of high carb, low fat diets.. whereas it's the fat in your diet that actually keeps your hormone levels high (including test).
People look down on guys who pound the red meat and the iron as meathead freaks, but hell, I have a problem keeping it DOWN rather than getting it up..
Test levels have dropped because guys don't want to lift heavy weights because they'd crease their metrosexual pink wifebeaters if they put a bar across their shoulders or are too scared of 'getting big', and have been fed into the government guidelines of high carb, low fat diets.. whereas it's the fat in your diet that actually keeps your hormone levels high (including test).
People look down on guys who pound the red meat and the iron as meathead freaks, but hell, I have a problem keeping it DOWN rather than getting it up..
diablo
Master Don Juan
Moved to H&F.
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Stir up insecure and transparent douches like yourself?CLOONEY said:
Now thats just below the belt, you want me to lose sleep? But seriously your half right I dont have much respect....for you, but dont have a teary over it theres probably only a handful of guys here whos POSTS I respect as guys who "get it".CLOONEY said:
Like I said you qualified yourself one too many times on here thus youve written yourself off as a joke to me, its nothing personal and theres a sh!tload of yous so dont sweat it.
Your into E-status and sh!t yeah? Neg me or something, but try not to b!tch and whine me around the board wont ya?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
E-status or real life status, you have to gain status (respect) for people to listen to you. This way, my advice (through lots of real life experience) actually gets put to use. And this way, I get to help people who were once like myself with no idea about woman whatsoever. Unlike your flame wars, which are just a waste of time.
Jariel, I totally agree. I dont remember this dude from years back, but from what I have seen of him on the anything else forum (the only one I visit these days), he is just a waste of space. I have also seen people banned for a LOT less. Negativity is not liked by most people titman.
Jariel, I totally agree. I dont remember this dude from years back, but from what I have seen of him on the anything else forum (the only one I visit these days), he is just a waste of space. I have also seen people banned for a LOT less. Negativity is not liked by most people titman.
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Yap yap yap fvck me dead man put it to bed. Just cross off Diablo's name for mine or something in your next whine to the mods post, get a petition for a banning happening you even got jariella (surprise suprise) backing up the gay train in full force so theres one right there, hell I'll even sign it if you stfu.CLOONEY said:
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Yeah ok man dont dwell on it too much, its not gonna change by you saying it a 4th time either.CLOONEY said:hahaha. For some reason, I just cant beleive you are 31
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.