Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Men willing to change their names for marriage - cringeworthy

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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RangerMIke

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I would never expect a woman to change her name if I found myself in the unlikely scenario of wed-lock again, however if she wanted to I get that it is a tradition.

A man changing his name for marriage is just weak behavior. And I promise that any man that agrees to this is just BEGGING his bride to cheat on him with a man with a better masculine frame. To tell the truth the only times IMO that this MIGHT make sence is if a guy is marring a women who has no brothers and they need someone to carry on the family name, since it will DIE otherwise, and you have brothers with sons that can carry on. OR, if it's a couple of gay dudes that marry, that all makes sense to me.

There has to be a reasonable and logical reason for you to do this, otherwise it's just pandering to the woman... Who might say she likes this, but in truth she and all her female friends emotionally think it's weak, which actually looks WEAKER as time goes by.
 

El Payaso

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The writer is your average ranting femi-nut-ist.

However, you can simply use reverse psychology on a woman you want to marry. Like she said, a lot of women grow up fantasizing about their wedding day, dress, taking their husband's name, blah...blah...blah...so treat it like a regular sh!t test.

If she says she doesn't want to take your name then you know she is obviously not the one for you. You say "Yeah, I agree. It makes us seem too close. You're just my wife not my soulmate."

Lol.

Her hamster will go into overdrive and she will start firing questions at you. Don't engage her anymore after that.
 

dude99

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Any woman who won't take your last name, dump. She isn't a flexible giver. And only flexable givers deserve to be married. A woman who isn't a flexible giver isn't even worthy to be a plate.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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GS750

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This woman keeps her husbands balls where she keeps her car keys. I feel bad for him. She probably makes him wear one of those c0ck cage contraptions when she's not around.
 

Alvafe

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I don't really care, so it wouldn't have been a biggie to me, but no way in hell I will change my name.

fun fact.

in eastern normally a man can take his wife family name when her family was considered more influential or powerfull then your family name, most of these also was a arranged marriage so the dude would join her wife family and keep the bussiness going(or dynasty or whatever was the case), they also had some really strange things about adoptions so tehy could keep the family name going in case there was not heir(lack of a son, or all died)
 
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