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Men willing to change their names for marriage - cringeworthy

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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RangerMIke

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I would never expect a woman to change her name if I found myself in the unlikely scenario of wed-lock again, however if she wanted to I get that it is a tradition.

A man changing his name for marriage is just weak behavior. And I promise that any man that agrees to this is just BEGGING his bride to cheat on him with a man with a better masculine frame. To tell the truth the only times IMO that this MIGHT make sence is if a guy is marring a women who has no brothers and they need someone to carry on the family name, since it will DIE otherwise, and you have brothers with sons that can carry on. OR, if it's a couple of gay dudes that marry, that all makes sense to me.

There has to be a reasonable and logical reason for you to do this, otherwise it's just pandering to the woman... Who might say she likes this, but in truth she and all her female friends emotionally think it's weak, which actually looks WEAKER as time goes by.
 

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The writer is your average ranting femi-nut-ist.

However, you can simply use reverse psychology on a woman you want to marry. Like she said, a lot of women grow up fantasizing about their wedding day, dress, taking their husband's name, blah...blah...blah...so treat it like a regular sh!t test.

If she says she doesn't want to take your name then you know she is obviously not the one for you. You say "Yeah, I agree. It makes us seem too close. You're just my wife not my soulmate."

Lol.

Her hamster will go into overdrive and she will start firing questions at you. Don't engage her anymore after that.
 

dude99

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Any woman who won't take your last name, dump. She isn't a flexible giver. And only flexable givers deserve to be married. A woman who isn't a flexible giver isn't even worthy to be a plate.
 

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This woman keeps her husbands balls where she keeps her car keys. I feel bad for him. She probably makes him wear one of those c0ck cage contraptions when she's not around.
 

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I don't really care, so it wouldn't have been a biggie to me, but no way in hell I will change my name.

fun fact.

in eastern normally a man can take his wife family name when her family was considered more influential or powerfull then your family name, most of these also was a arranged marriage so the dude would join her wife family and keep the bussiness going(or dynasty or whatever was the case), they also had some really strange things about adoptions so tehy could keep the family name going in case there was not heir(lack of a son, or all died)
 
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