"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Men willing to change their names for marriage - cringeworthy

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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RangerMIke

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I would never expect a woman to change her name if I found myself in the unlikely scenario of wed-lock again, however if she wanted to I get that it is a tradition.

A man changing his name for marriage is just weak behavior. And I promise that any man that agrees to this is just BEGGING his bride to cheat on him with a man with a better masculine frame. To tell the truth the only times IMO that this MIGHT make sence is if a guy is marring a women who has no brothers and they need someone to carry on the family name, since it will DIE otherwise, and you have brothers with sons that can carry on. OR, if it's a couple of gay dudes that marry, that all makes sense to me.

There has to be a reasonable and logical reason for you to do this, otherwise it's just pandering to the woman... Who might say she likes this, but in truth she and all her female friends emotionally think it's weak, which actually looks WEAKER as time goes by.
 

El Payaso

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The writer is your average ranting femi-nut-ist.

However, you can simply use reverse psychology on a woman you want to marry. Like she said, a lot of women grow up fantasizing about their wedding day, dress, taking their husband's name, blah...blah...blah...so treat it like a regular sh!t test.

If she says she doesn't want to take your name then you know she is obviously not the one for you. You say "Yeah, I agree. It makes us seem too close. You're just my wife not my soulmate."

Lol.

Her hamster will go into overdrive and she will start firing questions at you. Don't engage her anymore after that.
 

dude99

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Any woman who won't take your last name, dump. She isn't a flexible giver. And only flexable givers deserve to be married. A woman who isn't a flexible giver isn't even worthy to be a plate.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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GS750

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This woman keeps her husbands balls where she keeps her car keys. I feel bad for him. She probably makes him wear one of those c0ck cage contraptions when she's not around.
 

Alvafe

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I don't really care, so it wouldn't have been a biggie to me, but no way in hell I will change my name.

fun fact.

in eastern normally a man can take his wife family name when her family was considered more influential or powerfull then your family name, most of these also was a arranged marriage so the dude would join her wife family and keep the bussiness going(or dynasty or whatever was the case), they also had some really strange things about adoptions so tehy could keep the family name going in case there was not heir(lack of a son, or all died)
 
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