"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I am on holiday with a good friend , and unfortunately he is not that successful with the ladies . Where I am not is not that great for me either , but at least I got some action . My friend did not

talking , he said that he wants to go to a good escort and kinda makes sense to me , as I see him that he is not in a great space at the moment

guess what ? Escorts are arrogant not reliable

for me … it is crazy when I was reading through some of the discussions

if prostitutes have an entitlement , makes sense that also the regular women have it

which made me think … how simping can change dynamics :)

if you thought that legalizing prostitution is the answer , well it is not . Most likely to bang an average woman that is a prostitute soon will cost a lot of money as the supply is way lower than the demand
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A whole lot of lack of self-respect among these men.
 

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I am on holiday with a good friend , and unfortunately he is not that successful with the ladies . Where I am not is not that great for me either , but at least I got some action . My friend did not

talking , he said that he wants to go to a good escort and kinda makes sense to me , as I see him that he is not in a great space at the moment

guess what ? Escorts are arrogant not reliable

for me … it is crazy when I was reading through some of the discussions

if prostitutes have an entitlement , makes sense that also the regular women have it

which made me think … how simping can change dynamics :)

if you thought that legalizing prostitution is the answer , well it is not . Most likely to bang an average woman that is a prostitute soon will cost a lot of money as the supply is way lower than the demand
Hookers are good in England. (not that I tend to use them but more and more friends seem too)
Maybe 'cos it's basically legal, but you can bang some fvcking stunning 18 year old Hungarian or Polish girl here for very cheap.

Although your post makes me think about a thread I read on some forum a few months back. I can't remember what country it was, but essentially even the hookers were rejecting men/clients! ('too old', 'too ugly', 'looks like he smells' etc)

Made me laugh. Can't imagine that happening 10 years back lol
 

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Hookers are good in England. (not that I tend to use them but more and more friends seem too)
Maybe 'cos it's basically legal, but you can bang some fvcking stunning 18 year old Hungarian or Polish girl here for very cheap.

Although your post makes me think about a thread I read on some forum a few months back. I can't remember what country it was, but essentially even the hookers were rejecting men/clients! ('too old', 'too ugly', 'looks like he smells' etc)

Made me laugh. Can't imagine that happening 10 years back lol
dunno , I am traveling through Spain this summer

what I realized in my trip so far is that :

1) if you do not live in a big enough city , then the chance of having a good sex life is quite low . No matter how good you are

2) women tend to be on the ugly side in the medium and small cities . Most likely the good looking ones are Going to the big cities or they just stop taking care of themselves

3) prostitutes became extremely arrogant , unless they are freshly new in the scene from a poor country

4) logistics logistics logistics

without proper logistics , you are f8cked

5) if you go to touristic places , basically it is only night game
 

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A whole lot of lack of self-respect among these men.
I am sure that the men who accept this treatment on their money ( and quite a lot of money for subpar sex and quality of women most of the time ) , are the same men who act “alpha “ and demand respect
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I am sure that the men who accept this treatment on their money ( and quite a lot of money for subpar sex and quality of women most of the time ) , are the same men who act “alpha “ and demand respect
Respect has to come from within first. People have to live a life worthy of respect
 
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