"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Men & escorts - new shift of power

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I am on holiday with a good friend , and unfortunately he is not that successful with the ladies . Where I am not is not that great for me either , but at least I got some action . My friend did not

talking , he said that he wants to go to a good escort and kinda makes sense to me , as I see him that he is not in a great space at the moment

guess what ? Escorts are arrogant not reliable

for me … it is crazy when I was reading through some of the discussions

if prostitutes have an entitlement , makes sense that also the regular women have it

which made me think … how simping can change dynamics :)

if you thought that legalizing prostitution is the answer , well it is not . Most likely to bang an average woman that is a prostitute soon will cost a lot of money as the supply is way lower than the demand
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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A whole lot of lack of self-respect among these men.
 

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I am on holiday with a good friend , and unfortunately he is not that successful with the ladies . Where I am not is not that great for me either , but at least I got some action . My friend did not

talking , he said that he wants to go to a good escort and kinda makes sense to me , as I see him that he is not in a great space at the moment

guess what ? Escorts are arrogant not reliable

for me … it is crazy when I was reading through some of the discussions

if prostitutes have an entitlement , makes sense that also the regular women have it

which made me think … how simping can change dynamics :)

if you thought that legalizing prostitution is the answer , well it is not . Most likely to bang an average woman that is a prostitute soon will cost a lot of money as the supply is way lower than the demand
Hookers are good in England. (not that I tend to use them but more and more friends seem too)
Maybe 'cos it's basically legal, but you can bang some fvcking stunning 18 year old Hungarian or Polish girl here for very cheap.

Although your post makes me think about a thread I read on some forum a few months back. I can't remember what country it was, but essentially even the hookers were rejecting men/clients! ('too old', 'too ugly', 'looks like he smells' etc)

Made me laugh. Can't imagine that happening 10 years back lol
 

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Hookers are good in England. (not that I tend to use them but more and more friends seem too)
Maybe 'cos it's basically legal, but you can bang some fvcking stunning 18 year old Hungarian or Polish girl here for very cheap.

Although your post makes me think about a thread I read on some forum a few months back. I can't remember what country it was, but essentially even the hookers were rejecting men/clients! ('too old', 'too ugly', 'looks like he smells' etc)

Made me laugh. Can't imagine that happening 10 years back lol
dunno , I am traveling through Spain this summer

what I realized in my trip so far is that :

1) if you do not live in a big enough city , then the chance of having a good sex life is quite low . No matter how good you are

2) women tend to be on the ugly side in the medium and small cities . Most likely the good looking ones are Going to the big cities or they just stop taking care of themselves

3) prostitutes became extremely arrogant , unless they are freshly new in the scene from a poor country

4) logistics logistics logistics

without proper logistics , you are f8cked

5) if you go to touristic places , basically it is only night game
 

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A whole lot of lack of self-respect among these men.
I am sure that the men who accept this treatment on their money ( and quite a lot of money for subpar sex and quality of women most of the time ) , are the same men who act “alpha “ and demand respect
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I am sure that the men who accept this treatment on their money ( and quite a lot of money for subpar sex and quality of women most of the time ) , are the same men who act “alpha “ and demand respect
Respect has to come from within first. People have to live a life worthy of respect
 
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