jbbrain
Master Don Juan
haha, that party looks like the Big Chill!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
men don't want easy women
- Thread starter iqqi
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
jbbrain
Master Don Juan
Oh man, are u kidding me? Im happy with my fantasies, but theres just no way ANY of these girls on here (with one exception) are anywhere near hot. Good looking girls just wouldnt be found posting post after post on a mens datinf forum (you know who you are)
Player_Supreme
Banned
big chill huh..the other brotha was turning 28 years old ...he's to young to know that movie. But it wasn't a party. It was taken at a popular sushi joint that has music and shyt on thur. nites.Originally posted by jbbrain
haha, that party looks like the Big Chill!
I'm 44 the older looking brotha in back is in his 50's the other one in back is 30...
Let's see the other pics are of various night clubs. For some reason I attract alot of attention as different companies are always taking my picture...how about you? same problem?
They take those pictures for their website of all the hot looking people at this or that joint so come on down kinda thing...you can get with this!
I already know your next comment.
Originally posted by jbbrain
Oh man, are u kidding me? Im happy with my fantasies, but theres just no way ANY of these girls on here (with one exception) are anywhere near hot. Good looking girls just wouldnt be found posting post after post on a mens datinf forum (you know who you are)
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No man... I mean't I agree that there are many fat ugly chicks at forums, and when I mean forums i mean forums like this one AND the other ones.
jbbrain
Master Don Juan
did you know I was going to say..Originally posted by Player_Supreme
big chill huh..the other brotha was turning 28 years old ...he's to young to know that movie. But it wasn't a party. It was taken at a popular sushi joint that has music and shyt on thur. nites.
I'm 44 the older looking brotha in back is in his 50's the other one in back is 30...
Let's see the other pics are of various night clubs. For some reason I attract alot of attention as different companies are always taking my picture...how about you? same problem?
They take those pictures for their website of all the hot looking people at this or that joint so come on down kinda thing...you can get with this!
I already know your next comment.
Whatver floats your boat, Big Chill? The Big Chill, I never knew you also took the time to become a prophet in sacramento!damn! There's no end to the madness!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Player_Supreme
Banned
It's cool...International prophet as of now babychill. I wish someone had taken the time when I was your diaper age kid. It woulda saved me years of misery...like what your going to go through real soon.
when my book is ready I will send ya a copy..not free of course.
peace.
jbbrain
Master Don Juan
Big Chill,
You're not still pissy from before, are you?
C'mon Big Chill, we're passed that shyt! ("PM me if there's shyt you still need to get setlled")
Upward and Onward a TRUE player once told me!
Peace be with you Big Chill. Big Chill, I would never hope you would hope for the same years of misery and void you had to endure throughout your life to be where you're at today on such a young and impressionable kid like me...
But I digress..Big Chill!
Chizzle Bizzle
You're not still pissy from before, are you?
C'mon Big Chill, we're passed that shyt! ("PM me if there's shyt you still need to get setlled")
Upward and Onward a TRUE player once told me!
Peace be with you Big Chill. Big Chill, I would never hope you would hope for the same years of misery and void you had to endure throughout your life to be where you're at today on such a young and impressionable kid like me...
But I digress..Big Chill!
Chizzle Bizzle
jbbrain
Master Don Juan
bleh..
Move on from the past...bleh..live in the present...look forward to bigger and brighter things in the future!
Move on from the past...bleh..live in the present...look forward to bigger and brighter things in the future!
ShortyBrown
Master Don Juan
Boy I damn better be the hot oneOriginally posted by jbbrain
Oh man, are u kidding me? Im happy with my fantasies, but theres just no way ANY of these girls on here (with one exception) are anywhere near hot. Good looking girls just wouldnt be found posting post after post on a mens datinf forum (you know who you are)
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Player_Supreme
Banned
Not one hard feeling here...just trying to train you to leave out the undertones when you talk (post) to me.Originally posted by jbbrain
Big Chill,
You're not still pissy from before, are you?
C'mon Big Chill, we're passed that shyt! ("PM me if there's shyt you still need to get setlled")
Upward and Onward a TRUE player once told me!
Peace be with you Big Chill. Big Chill, I would never hope you would hope for the same years of misery and void you had to endure throughout your life to be where you're at today on such a young and impressionable kid like me...
But I digress..Big Chill!
Chizzle Bizzle
You kinda remind me of someone else...looking up at where I am and feeling inferior...oh yeah jake.
I'm actually surprised you've boned 25. Not bad for oh your not a kid any more...not bad for a grown assed man.
I guess in time your anger at me will die little chill...I did what I had to do to you..to help straighten you out.
peace
Don't bother trying to get the last word in..just pm it to me like a good boy.
MrBond007
Banned
The blunt reality is that most of them wont say what we would like to hear:Originally posted by Eileen
This is flawed. There are women who know what they want and who will speak their mind. You all call them bytches.
And please! I beg you, accuse me of telling men what they want to hear.
"Well X makes my cunt drip so much."
Sorry its not goin to happen most of the times(like 99.9999...%).
I mean that how and where someone is brought up impacts how they think. Your average American is much more uptight about sex than most Scandinavians. It's social programming.
People can think attitudes about sex are changing but my argument is that it takes many more generations to undo social programming that have occurred. An example of this would be the prejudice against African Americans in the US. It's been how long now and there is still a struggle? Sexual attitudes do not change over night nor do they change over the course of one or two generations.
Take a look at what some of your American peers have to say about loose women. They will have sex with them but they want a lower mileage unit for marriage. Put simply, they don't respect them. It's not genetic. It's social.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Player_Supreme
Banned
You know what Eileen. Maybe you shouldn't come here anymore. I think you've worn out your welcome to these fella's you dig.
Now why don't you hop on your broom stick and fly away bytch. Let it go. Let it be...you can't win this one. Your vastly out numbered kido.
Even the other women probably wish you would shut your old ass up and get to knitting a sweater or something.
MrBond007
Banned
No it is not.I got girls who were considered "so fucking cute but wont have sex before marriage because of religion..." and I got some who were considered "too hot for me and my friends, by my friends point of view".
Its only a matter of letting the woman know(or beleive) that everything you are doing is completely fine and normal and that she might be the one with flawed opinions on dating.Use what they do not like about themselves to make the process faster...The basics really.
MrBond007
Banned
word.Sorry Eilen but he copy/pasted a well know principal that no-one could deny...Originally posted by Player_Supreme
You know what Eileen. Maybe you shouldn't come here anymore. I think you've worn out your welcome to these fella's you dig.
Now why don't you hop on your broom stick and fly away bytch. Let it go. Let it be...you can't win this one. Your vastly out numbered kido.
Even the other women probably wish you would shut your old ass up and get to knitting a sweater or something.
( . )( . )
Banned
about fvckin time someone just came out and said it.Originally posted by Player_Supreme
You know what Eileen. Maybe you shouldn't come here anymore. I think you've worn out your welcome to these fella's you dig.
Now why don't you hop on your broom stick and fly away bytch. Let it go. Let it be...you can't win this one. Your vastly out numbered kido.
Even the other women probably wish you would shut your old ass up and get to knitting a sweater or something.
and PLEASE do us a favour and DONT scream "woman hater", the other b!tches are fine and at least have some common sense.
hell i would take 100 iqqis telling us all how horny she is over one of your clueless cleverly disguised bitter posts.
Actually, we do go through the trouble to some extent. Girls often have what? A, singular, one ... close girlfriend. If you have two, the jealousy thing starts happening. If I were hard pressed I could probably get sex out of my best friend and neither of us have tendencies that way.Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
Secondly, no women don't go through the trouble of getting women... but we do get gotten "get gotten"?
Women know women. We understand what men view as “jumbled up, emotional thinking.” Hell, I’d be willing to bet that any of the girls on this forum could pick up a straight woman for sex faster than most of the men. Why? Because, we can read other women. It’s not magic. Women are more inclined to pay attention to the little things EVERYONE does. It’s what makes us catty. We know what everybody else is up to. Most blokes can be hit with a brick and still not notice something is amiss.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.