There is a big difference in banging a 45 year old with 3 kids ( not yours).... and choosing that 45 year old over a smoking hot... well rounded 25 year old. For men biology takes over.. sex is fun but we are drawn to reproductive value.
Yes, given equal opportunity at a 25 year old and a 45 year old for pure sex, most men will naturally (and I mean, by nature) pick the 25 year old.
We, unlike wild mammals, are also emotional beings. Emotional attachment and bonding are just as natural and instinctual for us as any survival mechanism. Our choice in a partner does not always coincide purely with their sexual reproductive value. Emotional bonding factors in also. Anyone who denies this is just another alpha poser who uses red pill awareness to support misogynist confirmation bias (ie. burned by women and already resents them, reads RM, "becomes red pill" and now "understands" why the entire female gender is worthless beyond providing a wet orifice for penile insertion). Either a red pill poser, or a sociopath.
Many very high-status, self-respecting alpha males who are seeking a secure emotional base in a partner have zero interest in a 20-something Insta***** despite easy access to them. Look at the wives of a lot of hedge fund managers, Wall Street executives, managing partners at top M&A law firms -- very few have trophy wives. All their wives appear to be somewhat similar in age, reasonably attractive for their age but not knockouts, and women who have accomplished something worthwhile and provided value to society beyond a moist vagina. These are often the same multi-billionaires who wear Casio watches, shine their own shoes and take the subway to work.
The flashy "look at me!!" type celebrities -- the athletes, actors, Dan Bilzerians, whatevers -- those are the guys who place higher value on superficial appearance and therefore need require arm candy to validate their own fragile egos. Especially actors -- being a dude who does make pretend for a living -- I doubt they have strong senses of self.
So if by "wealthy alpha male" guys here are talking about narcissistic red carpet celebrities, then I'm talking about a different kind of wealthy alpha male.