DavenJuan
Master Don Juan
So it was the little ladys bday this past week. of course it sucks that her bday is so close to christmas. not to mention that our yearly anniversary is only 2 weeks prior to her bday.
For her bday i kept it pretty simple, taking her out to dinner and a small gift to show her that i do appreciate her from time to time. I already started collecting a few things for christmas and one of the things i decided to get her was a nice guess watch. this watch ran me around 130 dollars. i wrapped it and stuck it in a special place until dec 25.
Well, being it her birthday and working at a ****tail bar, her regulars that come into her bar threw her a bday party and bought her gifts. I normally stay away from this place but decided to go since she invited me to this occasion.
on of the regualrs offered her a job 3 wekks ago in his law firm working 2 days a week. Well, this particular guy that is now her "boss" also bought her a gift. This gift was in a small black bag and all the women in the bar new what was in it just from the baggage yet i had no clue.
she opens this bag and pulls out a 450 dollar diamond movado watch. needless to say my stomach was in my throat. i was very uncomfortable with this.
now a few things...
i am glad that i wasnt the one who needed to spend this money on something nice for her.
i also know that he is not just a "REGULAR" any more and now also her boss
..but i have to ask myself...is this normal?? what need is there to buy such an expensive gift?
...would i care so much if i hadnt already spent the time, effort, energy and 130 dollars on the same gift with less quality?
wandering how you all would feel or act towards something like this.
by the way, i took the watch back. i didnt plan on saying anything about it to her, but i wanted her to know that this guy just "one up'd" me with this elaborate gift she recieved from him.
comments welcome
For her bday i kept it pretty simple, taking her out to dinner and a small gift to show her that i do appreciate her from time to time. I already started collecting a few things for christmas and one of the things i decided to get her was a nice guess watch. this watch ran me around 130 dollars. i wrapped it and stuck it in a special place until dec 25.
Well, being it her birthday and working at a ****tail bar, her regulars that come into her bar threw her a bday party and bought her gifts. I normally stay away from this place but decided to go since she invited me to this occasion.
on of the regualrs offered her a job 3 wekks ago in his law firm working 2 days a week. Well, this particular guy that is now her "boss" also bought her a gift. This gift was in a small black bag and all the women in the bar new what was in it just from the baggage yet i had no clue.
she opens this bag and pulls out a 450 dollar diamond movado watch. needless to say my stomach was in my throat. i was very uncomfortable with this.
now a few things...
i am glad that i wasnt the one who needed to spend this money on something nice for her.
i also know that he is not just a "REGULAR" any more and now also her boss
..but i have to ask myself...is this normal?? what need is there to buy such an expensive gift?
...would i care so much if i hadnt already spent the time, effort, energy and 130 dollars on the same gift with less quality?
wandering how you all would feel or act towards something like this.
by the way, i took the watch back. i didnt plan on saying anything about it to her, but i wanted her to know that this guy just "one up'd" me with this elaborate gift she recieved from him.
comments welcome