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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Rainman4707

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Women do get called a lot on here, I think it is coming from a good place as we need to let our fellow don juans know what women are like.

I just wanted to remind people that men are just as bad as women. Men cheat a lot.
 

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Rainman4707 said:
Women do get called a lot on here, I think it is coming from a good place as we need to let our fellow don juans know what women are like.

I just wanted to remind people that men are just as bad as women. Men cheat a lot.
In the Christian bible there are over a dozen accounts of wives who betrayed their husbands horribly leading to their demise or even death.

They warned of the "wh0red0ms" well before Christ, a woman who can slay the strongest of men with her beauty. Entrap him, rob him or take his life.

It was said it's better to live on the roof top than in the house with a brawling wife.

So this is nothing new. Men have to be smarter, and yes men and women both cheat.

The question I have is it necessary? If your going to do some things outside the house why not have the balls or the c@nt to say this is what you want to do and you can do it too?

If you are going to have someone to just cheat on em, why be with em?
 

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DaddyLongShanks said:
In the Christian bible there are over a dozen accounts of wives who betrayed their husbands horribly leading to their demise or even death.
I'm no expert, but I went to catholic school as a child and can think of two to three stories of such accord.
-Adam and Eve
Samson and Delilah
-And the warning in proverbs about dealing with amoral women. Which technically isn't a story.
Could you give me 6 out of the 12?

To OP. Your statement is true. For every story of a shallow woman toying with the feelings of a man, another can be told of a man toying with the feelings of a woman.

Unfortunately, many of the guys here came here because they

A. Lack social skills.
B. Were the victim of one of the forementioned incidents.
C. Never could get girls to begin with.

What most men need to admit here is, whatever happend to them with said woman was their fault, because ..

A. They became insecure and pushed her away
B. They became needy and pushed her away
C. They just don't know how to pick through the bad fruits to see the ripe ones. Blinded by looks and sex rather than her virtue.

I suppose fool me once, shame on you. 2x its on me?

Not sure the motivation for this post ..
Youll get flamed here for it. But yes, your statement is true.
 
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cola said:
I'm no expert, but I went to catholic school as a child and can think of two to three stories of such accord.
-Adam and Eve
Samson and Delilah
-And the warning in proverbs about dealing with amoral women. Which technically isn't a story.
Could you give me 6 out of the 12?

To OP. Your statement is true. For every story of a shallow woman toying with the feelings of a man, another can be told of a man toying with the feelings of a woman.

Unfortunately, many of the guys here came here because they

A. Lack social skills.
B. Were the victim of one of the forementioned incidents.
C. Never could get girls to begin with.

What most men need to admit here is, whatever happend to them with said woman was there fault, because ..

A. They became insecure and pushed her away
B. They became needy and pushed her away
C. They just don't know how to pick through the bad fruits to see the ripe ones. Blinded by looks and sex rather than her virtue.

I suppose fool me once, shame on you. 2x its on me?

Not sure the motivation for this post ..
Youll get flamed here for it. But yes, your statement is true.
http://www.womeninthebible.net/bad-women.htm

I also count Bethsheba. She could've resisted David, that's my opinion. This story is painted in a positive light at times and I don't see it.
 

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Nice, but all these women didn't directly harm men. Repped anyway, appreciate the effort.

Edit: must spread more around before blah blah blah
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm just here for PoonQueen,





Come one we're all waiting ....
 

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Rainman4707 said:
Women do get called a lot on here, I think it is coming from a good place as we need to let our fellow don juans know what women are like.

I just wanted to remind people that men are just as bad as women. Men cheat a lot.
Don't you think it's easier for women to cheat?
 

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My position is not that women cheat more than men. Everything I have read puts this near equal, women perhaps slightly less.

What young men need to be warned about, is how women MANIPULATE men whilst dating, married, and after divorce. They are manipluators at heart - it is built into them.


How the system is set up for a woman to gain a man's resources - and how marriage is they key to this. Once married, they drain and drain, and even if they divorce you, they system is set up to continue to transfer your resources to them.

^^THIS^^ It's not only in marriage but will even happen with being "friends".

So I hit up the local university bar a couple weeks back, meet a bar fly she's 36 but could easily pass for 30, no kids. Just for fun & pratice I get her number and put her in rotation. She's divorced a couple years now and lives with a "friend". She invites me over for dinner, free dinner why the hell not.

Guess what......go to find out she lives RENT FREE! Yup, straight from horses mouth. He chased her for mutiple years but she completely friendzoned him and they are now roomates.

If they can't generate their own resources then they will extract them in anyway they can without blinking an eye.
 
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Mauser96 said:
My position is not that women cheat more than men. Everything I have read puts this near equal, women perhaps slightly less.

What young men need to be warned about, is how women MANIPULATE men whilst dating, married, and after divorce. They are manipluators at heart - it is built into them.


How the system is set up for a woman to gain a man's resources - and how marriage is they key to this. Once married, they drain and drain, and even if they divorce you, they system is set up to continue to transfer your resources to them.
So they get to "cheat" men in many more ways not all incorporating a physical "infidelity".:woo:
 
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