"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Men are just as bad..

Rainman4707

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Women do get called a lot on here, I think it is coming from a good place as we need to let our fellow don juans know what women are like.

I just wanted to remind people that men are just as bad as women. Men cheat a lot.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Rainman4707 said:
Women do get called a lot on here, I think it is coming from a good place as we need to let our fellow don juans know what women are like.

I just wanted to remind people that men are just as bad as women. Men cheat a lot.
In the Christian bible there are over a dozen accounts of wives who betrayed their husbands horribly leading to their demise or even death.

They warned of the "wh0red0ms" well before Christ, a woman who can slay the strongest of men with her beauty. Entrap him, rob him or take his life.

It was said it's better to live on the roof top than in the house with a brawling wife.

So this is nothing new. Men have to be smarter, and yes men and women both cheat.

The question I have is it necessary? If your going to do some things outside the house why not have the balls or the c@nt to say this is what you want to do and you can do it too?

If you are going to have someone to just cheat on em, why be with em?
 

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DaddyLongShanks said:
In the Christian bible there are over a dozen accounts of wives who betrayed their husbands horribly leading to their demise or even death.
I'm no expert, but I went to catholic school as a child and can think of two to three stories of such accord.
-Adam and Eve
Samson and Delilah
-And the warning in proverbs about dealing with amoral women. Which technically isn't a story.
Could you give me 6 out of the 12?

To OP. Your statement is true. For every story of a shallow woman toying with the feelings of a man, another can be told of a man toying with the feelings of a woman.

Unfortunately, many of the guys here came here because they

A. Lack social skills.
B. Were the victim of one of the forementioned incidents.
C. Never could get girls to begin with.

What most men need to admit here is, whatever happend to them with said woman was their fault, because ..

A. They became insecure and pushed her away
B. They became needy and pushed her away
C. They just don't know how to pick through the bad fruits to see the ripe ones. Blinded by looks and sex rather than her virtue.

I suppose fool me once, shame on you. 2x its on me?

Not sure the motivation for this post ..
Youll get flamed here for it. But yes, your statement is true.
 
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cola said:
I'm no expert, but I went to catholic school as a child and can think of two to three stories of such accord.
-Adam and Eve
Samson and Delilah
-And the warning in proverbs about dealing with amoral women. Which technically isn't a story.
Could you give me 6 out of the 12?

To OP. Your statement is true. For every story of a shallow woman toying with the feelings of a man, another can be told of a man toying with the feelings of a woman.

Unfortunately, many of the guys here came here because they

A. Lack social skills.
B. Were the victim of one of the forementioned incidents.
C. Never could get girls to begin with.

What most men need to admit here is, whatever happend to them with said woman was there fault, because ..

A. They became insecure and pushed her away
B. They became needy and pushed her away
C. They just don't know how to pick through the bad fruits to see the ripe ones. Blinded by looks and sex rather than her virtue.

I suppose fool me once, shame on you. 2x its on me?

Not sure the motivation for this post ..
Youll get flamed here for it. But yes, your statement is true.
http://www.womeninthebible.net/bad-women.htm

I also count Bethsheba. She could've resisted David, that's my opinion. This story is painted in a positive light at times and I don't see it.
 

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Nice, but all these women didn't directly harm men. Repped anyway, appreciate the effort.

Edit: must spread more around before blah blah blah
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I'm just here for PoonQueen,





Come one we're all waiting ....
 

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Rainman4707 said:
Women do get called a lot on here, I think it is coming from a good place as we need to let our fellow don juans know what women are like.

I just wanted to remind people that men are just as bad as women. Men cheat a lot.
Don't you think it's easier for women to cheat?
 

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My position is not that women cheat more than men. Everything I have read puts this near equal, women perhaps slightly less.

What young men need to be warned about, is how women MANIPULATE men whilst dating, married, and after divorce. They are manipluators at heart - it is built into them.


How the system is set up for a woman to gain a man's resources - and how marriage is they key to this. Once married, they drain and drain, and even if they divorce you, they system is set up to continue to transfer your resources to them.

^^THIS^^ It's not only in marriage but will even happen with being "friends".

So I hit up the local university bar a couple weeks back, meet a bar fly she's 36 but could easily pass for 30, no kids. Just for fun & pratice I get her number and put her in rotation. She's divorced a couple years now and lives with a "friend". She invites me over for dinner, free dinner why the hell not.

Guess what......go to find out she lives RENT FREE! Yup, straight from horses mouth. He chased her for mutiple years but she completely friendzoned him and they are now roomates.

If they can't generate their own resources then they will extract them in anyway they can without blinking an eye.
 
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Mauser96 said:
My position is not that women cheat more than men. Everything I have read puts this near equal, women perhaps slightly less.

What young men need to be warned about, is how women MANIPULATE men whilst dating, married, and after divorce. They are manipluators at heart - it is built into them.


How the system is set up for a woman to gain a man's resources - and how marriage is they key to this. Once married, they drain and drain, and even if they divorce you, they system is set up to continue to transfer your resources to them.
So they get to "cheat" men in many more ways not all incorporating a physical "infidelity".:woo:
 
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