"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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wildchild

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I know this guy who is really, really handsome girls always check him out all the time but he hardly ever pulls. Hes sorta seeing this girl, hes been out with her like 5 times but still not slept with her. How should he play it if he wants some *****? Should he not do the neg hits because hes a handsome guy and the girls may feel too insecure? Any tips here? And also is it a good idea to mack with a really handsome guy:p I sometimes use it to start up conversations with women.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Le Parisien

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Why would you care about this supposedly "really handsome" guy?
How should he play it if he wants some *****? Should he not do the neg hits because hes a handsome guy and the girls may feel too insecure? Any tips here?
Something tells me this guy might be your alter ego...:rolleyes:

How about you tell us straight up that you think you are a really handsome guy but you have trouble "going further" with some ladies?:kick: :whistle:
 

wildchild

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LOL! No man im not a really handsome guy hahaha, this really handsome guy is a guy ive been hanging about with recently. He has just started approaching some girls because he has seen me do it. I've been with girls who have said wow your mate is so cute, the only answer I have for it now is "Yes I know".
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Fash

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wildchild said:
I've been with girls who have said wow your mate is so cute, the only answer I have for it now is "Yes I know".
My reply will be...

"yeh, unfortunately he's gay" :rock:
 

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WTF man? Go out with him if he's a funny guy, otherwise go with someone else or alone, whatever. Don't use other people's qualities to pick up girls, that is very uncool.
 

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sounds like your mate needs some DJing skills.
Ddn't you read that even if a guys got fame, power, looks, money, he may still be crap at approaching girls and wont have sex.
 

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To answer the orginal question. I dont think he should use Neg hits. Women are already pedistooling him and he already has attained himself as the prize before he opens his mouth. If he neg hits her then she will just think hes big headed ego mania. I would tell him to move in with a little C+F.


I guess your coaching this guy? Or your the gay one and you fancy him?

If your coaching him and see the potential then I understand. I am coaching a friend of mine.

I totally agree with Fash's reply thow. I would prob say it in a joking manner thow as im not one to hold others back.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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lurker

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i have a very handsome friend too, and a girl i was trying to chat up with her friends said to me i like your friend but dont tell him. she said she liked my friend but couldnt even talk to him when he tried to chat her up and told him she had a boyfriend and she wondered why he wasnt interested in her anymore girls are silly. it isnt necessarily easy for handsome men.
 
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