"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I know this guy who is really, really handsome girls always check him out all the time but he hardly ever pulls. Hes sorta seeing this girl, hes been out with her like 5 times but still not slept with her. How should he play it if he wants some *****? Should he not do the neg hits because hes a handsome guy and the girls may feel too insecure? Any tips here? And also is it a good idea to mack with a really handsome guy:p I sometimes use it to start up conversations with women.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Why would you care about this supposedly "really handsome" guy?
How should he play it if he wants some *****? Should he not do the neg hits because hes a handsome guy and the girls may feel too insecure? Any tips here?
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Something tells me this guy might be your alter ego...:rolleyes:

How about you tell us straight up that you think you are a really handsome guy but you have trouble "going further" with some ladies?:kick: :whistle:
 
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LOL! No man im not a really handsome guy hahaha, this really handsome guy is a guy ive been hanging about with recently. He has just started approaching some girls because he has seen me do it. I've been with girls who have said wow your mate is so cute, the only answer I have for it now is "Yes I know".
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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wildchild said:
I've been with girls who have said wow your mate is so cute, the only answer I have for it now is "Yes I know".
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My reply will be...

"yeh, unfortunately he's gay" :rock:
 
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WTF man? Go out with him if he's a funny guy, otherwise go with someone else or alone, whatever. Don't use other people's qualities to pick up girls, that is very uncool.
 
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sounds like your mate needs some DJing skills.
Ddn't you read that even if a guys got fame, power, looks, money, he may still be crap at approaching girls and wont have sex.
 
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To answer the orginal question. I dont think he should use Neg hits. Women are already pedistooling him and he already has attained himself as the prize before he opens his mouth. If he neg hits her then she will just think hes big headed ego mania. I would tell him to move in with a little C+F.


I guess your coaching this guy? Or your the gay one and you fancy him?

If your coaching him and see the potential then I understand. I am coaching a friend of mine.

I totally agree with Fash's reply thow. I would prob say it in a joking manner thow as im not one to hold others back.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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i have a very handsome friend too, and a girl i was trying to chat up with her friends said to me i like your friend but dont tell him. she said she liked my friend but couldnt even talk to him when he tried to chat her up and told him she had a boyfriend and she wondered why he wasnt interested in her anymore girls are silly. it isnt necessarily easy for handsome men.
 
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