"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Meeting Your Dream Girl's Doppleganger

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Back in June I had my heart broken by a beauty who I never really got over. I had another girl and saw her a lot in the meantime, but even after she and I ended things I reverted to missing the first one.

Anyhow, on New Year's Eve I swore I saw her (1000 miles away from where we met as I since moved). It wasn't the same girl, but seeing her reminded me how much I still adored her.

I went over to her and told her that she reminded me of someone. It turns out they have the same birthday (off by one day), are the same age (off by one year), were born the same day of the week (exactly 52 weeks apart), part their hair the same, have the same eyes, same boobs, same smile and same attitude. And get this: their names are almost identical! Not only that, but we met the same week (Dec 26, 2014 versus Dec 31, 2015).

I showed her a photo of the first girl and even she swore they looked identical (minus the hair color), to the point where she told her friends about it and was excited to see me when I ran into her a second time. The best part was, unlike the first girl who had all of Nismo's warning signs, this second one has no tattoos and her natural brown hair color, and no piercings - my ideal woman! I feel like God is giving me a second chance. As luck would have it, I was with another girl both times I saw her, so I couldn't ask her out, but that probably only helped.

I've always noticed that there are only so many types of beautiful women, but have you ever met a girl who reminded you so much of another girl?
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dafuq dude. Are you really a guy?You could even remember the day of the week you met with that ex chick of yours? You are full into afc zone.
Considering your enthusiasm ,you are gonna blow all things up.

Honestly ,what were you doing 10 years and 3.600 posts in SS except for spending your time?
 

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Dafuq dude. Are you really a guy?You could even remember the day of the week you met with that ex chick of yours? You are full into afc zone.
Considering your enthusiasm ,you are gonna blow all things up.

Honestly ,what were you doing 10 years and 3.600 posts in SS except for spending your time?

I remember the day I met my one itis girl. but then again, I was going into my pool hall and I was going to kick everyone ass. so. there is that...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You guys don't know Neil, but the guy is a romantic. Just because he isn't "alpha" this and "**** your feelings" etc doesn't mean he isn't an old school DJ.
 

Yewki

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You guys don't know Neil, but the guy is a romantic. Just because he isn't "alpha" this and "**** your feelings" etc doesn't mean he isn't an old school DJ.
It is never good to overvalue women, whether you're an "old school DJ" or not
 

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It's just a mirage man. She might have the exact same hair and wear the same sweater but it isn't her.
 
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