"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Meeting women on the street, rate of success?

jnMissouri

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I used to have a lot of success on MySpace and POF, but with the new messaging format not including a subject line, it's tougher to stand out. Not impossible, but not as responsive as before, so I am trying out public places instead to meet people.

I have no problem meeting women at bars, have a few good tactics and openers I've used before, however; I am not a fan of bars overall, though considering going there regularly to meet women since meeting them on the street just seems awkward. From what I read recently, very few women met on the street end up as dates, etc. That seems to match my own experience from when I was in my late teens, I've only slept with a few women I met on the street.

Do you meet women this way and is it as effective for you as other ways? What works for you, what doesn't? Any openers? I have some openers for grocery stores but need to practice them.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Rainman4707

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I tried daygame in the city & didn't have much success.

I approached lots of women, but didn't have much success.

I found myself more successful Online.

Read Sideways thread on approaches.
 
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