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How is your things going? How is dating? Are you sniper approaching?
Not quite as narrow as sniper,...but maybe marksman might be something to call it. Think of it as the middleground between sniper and SPAM approaching. But in my demographic/age group you might only meet one interesting woman every 1-2 months. Most are either married/LTR,...or horribly out of shape and unhealthy,...mental/emotional health issues/baggage,...or, they died in the last couple years. The dead ones are quiet and easy to get along with but not much fun at parties.
 

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Not quite as narrow as sniper,...but maybe marksman might be something to call it. Think of it as the middleground between sniper and SPAM approaching. But in my demographic/age group you might only meet one interesting woman every 1-2 months. Most are either married/LTR,...or horribly out of shape and unhealthy,...mental/emotional health issues/baggage,...or, they died in the last couple years. The dead ones are quiet and easy to get along with but not much fun at parties.
Nice bro. How old are you? Early 30s. Watching guys fall off. Befriend other young blood. Fellas on the come up. Notice most slip the sec they bust a nut. Inactive gym membership. No lifts. Urinating from the seated position.

I hear you. I went full retard approaching, world travel. Day or night. 24/7 at times even. I don't recommend it. Been mostly day game past year.

I got picked up the other day. Not saying it's a actionable approach but to looks max. Go the **** off training, diet, lifestyle and health. Document in the health sub. Went super sayain over pandemic. Best shape of my life. Feels good man. The IOIs and choosing signals are off the chart. Lots of approach invitations. Another day at the off. I highly recommend IF, 8hrs of deep REM sleep, on point diet, and calisthenics. It's been unreal.
 

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NO…You keep interested (true interest) high by remaining celibate. God will bring the high-interest woman through your prayer request. This interest is NEVER lost once you get married.You have to have super-patience and self-control,only can come from being indwelt by the spirit.
I still very much like that. Not true, however. I have seen and have been what you tell; I tried many different paths and that is one of them. Biology was in force before religion was invented. The only ones it works for is if the man is a natural alpha (for lack of a better name to call it). Perhaps if the woman really has a mind, heart, emotion all focused to serve god then maybe. I never met such a woman and I did look in the places we would expect to find such. Plenty of women play that holy status game, however. I even married one that fit those descriptions you tell of... It was a very long time ago. When trials came, she went. I was a good man but not anything like an alpha, just the opposite, and all trust was with God about it.

I now believe God helps those that help themself and I also believe much in the teachings of Ecclesiastes.

Do you have any evidence or example/samples? Most celebrity-level Christians all end up with problems.
 

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What is sniper and SPAM approaching? Looked it up and found nothing
Sniper means stalking and knowing every small detail to try to target her. So you're hyper focused only on her and up too close. It doesn't work!

Spam approach is just being social and talking to everyone around you. If a female shows greater interest then get her number. Otherwise keep it moving. You aren't focus on anyone in particular, your enjoying life.
 

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Spam approach is just being social and talking to everyone around you. If a female shows greater interest then get her number. Otherwise keep it moving. You aren't focus on anyone in particular, your enjoying life.
Thanks for the reply @mrgoodstuff. I was thinking about this today (context, I want an LTR). Today I realized I have a problem:

When I'm out of town I see a girl and I'm like "nah, I'm gonna be gone in a week. Pointless to approach and I don't wanna deal with her getting attached then having to break stuff off and hurting someone. It's a pointless train to nowhere."

Then when I'm home I'm like "I don't wanna take this girl out when everyone I know will be breathing down both of our necks wanting to know all our business and starting dumb drama. That stuff wears me out/gives me dread."

SPAM is exactly what I want though. Thoughts, experience, examples, advice?

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Also, you've been here awhile; you may know some answers to this problem I made a post about that's gotten 0 answers. Appreciate you bro, thanks again for the response
 

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Thanks for the reply @mrgoodstuff. I was thinking about this today (context, I want an LTR). Today I realized I have a problem:

When I'm out of town I see a girl and I'm like "nah, I'm gonna be gone in a week. Pointless to approach and I don't wanna deal with her getting attached then having to break stuff off and hurting someone. It's a pointless train to nowhere."

Then when I'm home I'm like "I don't wanna take this girl out when everyone I know will be breathing down both of our necks wanting to know all our business and starting dumb drama. That stuff wears me out/gives me dread."

SPAM is exactly what I want though. Thoughts, experience, examples, advice?

==

Also, you've been here awhile; you may know some answers to this problem I made a post about that's gotten 0 answers. Appreciate you bro, thanks again for the response
Spam simply means being social
 

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Respect!

Young blood today pops his cherry at like 30 and turns into ****ing Bambi. #pathetic!
I went though the early years without knowing what I was doing. Wish I would have figured it out much sooner,...but there was no one teaching it. Red Pill hadnt even been heard of back then. So you either had kids who learned from dad who knew what he was doing from the 1940's, 1950's,...or you didn't,... and got brain washed with the feminist Blue Pill crap from the 1970's, 1980's, and onward. My dad was married 7 times, so in spite of his other issues, the one thing he definitely knew how to do was pickup chicks and how to escalate. (He just could keep it together after that). But I didn't grow up with him and didn't learn the pickup skills, the "charm" skills, etc. So I had to learn the hard way.
 

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I went though the early years without knowing what I was doing. Wish I would have figured it out much sooner,...but there was no one teaching it. Red Pill hadnt even been heard of back then. So you either had kids who learned from dad who knew what he was doing from the 1940's, 1950's,...or you didn't,... and got brain washed with the feminist Blue Pill crap from the 1970's, 1980's, and onward. My dad was married 7 times, so in spite of his other issues, the one thing he definitely knew how to do was pickup chicks and how to escalate. (He just could keep it together after that). But I didn't grow up with him and didn't learn the pickup skills, the "charm" skills, etc. So I had to learn the hard way.
Was he picking women who do him dirty or was he leaving?
 
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I still very much like that. Not true, however. I have seen and have been what you tell; I tried many different paths and that is one of them. Biology was in force before religion was invented. The only ones it works for is if the man is a natural alpha (for lack of a better name to call it). Perhaps if the woman really has a mind, heart, emotion all focused to serve god then maybe. I never met such a woman and I did look in the places we would expect to find such. Plenty of women play that holy status game, however. I even married one that fit those descriptions you tell of... It was a very long time ago. When trials came, she went. I was a good man but not anything like an alpha, just the opposite, and all trust was with God about it.

I now believe God helps those that help themself and I also believe much in the teachings of Ecclesiastes.

Do you have any evidence or example/samples? Most celebrity-level Christians all end up with problems.
I would try going to a REAL Christian church,you most likely went to an apostate church so you met an evil woman pretending to be a Christian.You have to let God pick out the woman by providence (not you doing the picking)
 

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I went though the early years without knowing what I was doing. Wish I would have figured it out much sooner,...but there was no one teaching it. Red Pill hadnt even been heard of back then. So you either had kids who learned from dad who knew what he was doing from the 1940's, 1950's,...or you didn't,... and got brain washed with the feminist Blue Pill crap from the 1970's, 1980's, and onward. My dad was married 7 times, so in spite of his other issues, the one thing he definitely knew how to do was pickup chicks and how to escalate. (He just could keep it together after that). But I didn't grow up with him and didn't learn the pickup skills, the "charm" skills, etc. So I had to learn the hard way.
I got respect for men like you and @Striamong others who are on this path regardless of age or monogamy. Troy is nearing 50. He's not a blogger. He's not screaming hypergamy into YouTube. He's approaching with TUSK via podcast. On air in real time. Buddy has balls. Most are secretly married or shilling some rubbish ebook. Miniscule men live this lifestyle.

Respect. What's your focus atm?
 

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I would try going to a REAL Christian church,you most likely went to an apostate church so you met an evil woman pretending to be a Christian.You have to let God pick out the woman by providence (not you doing the picking)
Thise real churchs are usually full of 50+ year olds. Believe me i went to a ultra conservative latin mass church here in sydney. I was the youngest person by a wide margin. It's slim picking out here in Australia where post people are not religious
 

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Thise real churchs are usually full of 50+ year olds. Believe me i went to a ultra conservative latin mass church here in sydney. I was the youngest person by a wide margin. It's slim picking out here in Australia where post people are not religious
Are you better IN or OUT of the churche environment for those things?
 

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Are you better IN or OUT of the churche environment for those things?
I think if we all had a better sense of community, more people would have faith. I'm in the crowd that goes to church for the community/social aspect. I want to be around like minded individuals who share my values.

I went to a secular school and i was probably the only religious person, in that environment i drifted away from religion since none of my peers were Christian. There was no support group.

The only Christians my age were cultural ones who would pick and choose what to believe in, one female relative would sloot it up all week and go church on sundays to confess her sins as if that somehow makes things better?
 

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I would try going to a REAL Christian church,you most likely went to an apostate church so you met an evil woman pretending to be a Christian.You have to let God pick out the woman by providence (not you doing the picking)
I get it.

what would you recommend as a real church and why? tell it like it is.
 
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I get it.

what would you recommend as a real church and why? tell it like it is.
I would go to a reformed baptist church.They preach God as sovereign and predestination.They also teach the proper roles of men and women in church.They are no perfect churches but they preach the Bible as the word of God. (Inerrant) pure Christian women are in these churches I have seen them and they are blessed with beauty competition is fierce.Do not go to an arminian church !! Fakes are everywhere us the Holy Spirit for guidance.If you are not celibate while looking expect NO help from God.
 
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