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Has anyone here had experience with meeting women the same way our Grandparents did? As in our family played matchmaker and introduced us to the daughters of Friends from Church. Usually in Church Moms like to try and set their boys up with girls.

In a way it's basically social Circle game, except its the social status of your whole family. I'm curious to know if anyone has experienced this?

My Mother and Father have started asking around, but not sure if it will be worth it but it can't hurt to try.
 
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I thought you meant old fashion as in approaching Lulz not OLD. If a opportunity comes take it but Def don't rely nor wait for it. It's happened a few times in my life. Let it ride. Last approach was in a grocery store. Baeeee was awkward and clumsy but dtf. It's the best of the three IMHO. I am addicted to the experience and chase. An alternative path you can take is setup your buddies and they likely will do the same for you.
 

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I thought you meant old fashion as in approaching Lulz not OLD. If a opportunity comes take it but Def don't rely nor wait for it. It's happened a few times in my life. Let it ride. Last approach was in a grocery store. Baeeee was awkward and clumsy but dtf. It's the best of the three IMHO. I am addicted to the experience and chase. An alternative path you can take is setup your buddies and they likely will do the same for you.
Yeah your right i decided to change the title, I've never really had a solid social circle, and guys i know are just aquatainces or work buddies nobody that can really set me up and vice versa. I'm going to build my social circle up once lockdown ends.
 

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You can meet women at church, but good luck trying to fvck those ones. No sex before marriage and all that.
 

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Yeah your right i decided to change the title, I've never really had a solid social circle, and guys i know are just aquatainces or work buddies nobody that can really set me up and vice versa. I'm going to build my social circle up once lockdown ends.
Your a good kid. Young man. You got time. Put work in. Same as buying crypto, DCA, INVEST, etc. Allocate time even just 20min per day. Spit game. Cultivate that million dollar mouth piece. there's nothing I do that you or anybody else can't do. The difference is, I put in over a decade of chain gunning pickup. Day or night. Don't do this. Instead everyday allocate space to approach. Get money right. Invest. A handful approaches everyday. Start a biz. have multiple revenue streams. My cousin started a tech biz in lock down. He is making great money as a kid. He has zero time for attention *****s cause it's very expensive. very costly. As for social circle, learning GAME will make you more attractive to everyone. I skip opens and start chatting.

Dude = new pals &&&& girls = crush

People suck. Most guys flop the sec they bust a nut. Many girls are not ride or die let alone worthy of your non sexual time. It's not suddenly game time. It's like the movie Unleashed with Jet Li. Collars off. Instead of kicking ass you are hitting on girls.
 

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I have through Church sponsored events like Festivals and what not

I don't think I would specifically to go to Church on Sunday just to meet women though lol
 

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Has anyone here had experience with meeting women the same way our Grandparents did? As in our family played matchmaker and introduced us to the daughters of Friends from Church. Usually in Church Moms like to try and set their boys up with girls.

In a way it's basically social Circle game, except its the social status of your whole family. I'm curious to know if anyone has experienced this?

My Mother and Father have started asking around, but not sure if it will be worth it but it can't hurt to try.
I have a lot of experience. It's pretty difficult, the standards are sky high. I thought it would be easier bc of the social circle dynamic and mutual interests, but church girls prefer to date with no supervision, obligation, or consequences online now. I did a lot better outside of Church.
 

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It pains me to see this question being asked so many times because it highlights just how difficult the dating market is these days.

Men are holding onto hope that church might offer a woman that can be a decent partner....

I'm sorry to say that church is actually the last place you should look. I've posted my thoughts on this before and rather than rehashing it, I'll just link to my most recent post on this issue:

 

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It pains me to see this question being asked so many times because it highlights just how difficult the dating market is these days.

Men are holding onto hope that church might offer a woman that can be a decent partner....

I'm sorry to say that church is actually the last place you should look. I've posted my thoughts on this before and rather than rehashing it, I'll just link to my most recent post on this issue:

I think you are projecting a little here, although there is a lot of truth to it to be sure. You should be able to form your own clique quickly if you have the status and charisma in a Church. Dating there, however, is difficult.
 

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I have a lot of experience. It's pretty difficult, the standards are sky high. I thought it would be easier bc of the social circle dynamic and mutual interests, but church girls prefer to date with no supervision, obligation, or consequences online now. I did a lot better outside of Church.
Well that's extremely disappointing, I've asked around on Christian forums and their advice just boils down to "pray for it" and "good things comes to those who wait" which is just idiotic.
 

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Well that's extremely disappointing, I've asked around on Christian forums and their advice just boils down to "pray for it" and "good things comes to those who wait" which is just idiotic.
To be fair, im in a particularly bad dating market so it's a bit skewed, but yeah I was pretty surprised. I grew up in the church and had little to no success there either. I assumed when I went back that it would be different because I had lots of success outside it.
 

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To be fair, im in a particularly bad dating market so it's a bit skewed, but yeah I was pretty surprised. I grew up in the church and had little to no success there either. I assumed when I went back that it would be different because I had lots of success outside it.
Gotta shop around. Some churches have happening singles ministries..
 

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Did nothing for me in that regard. It's better to try an online Christian dating site if you are going that route.
 

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Did nothing for me in that regard. It's better to try an online Christian dating site if you are going that route.
I tried christian date for free but it was a barren wasteland here in Australia, i kept getting messages from filipina girls though I'm not looking fot a penpal.
 

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Gotta shop around. Some churches have happening singles ministries..
Mine does, that's the crazy thing. It's a total meat market but the women have too much anxiety to date in a social group. I match with some of them on Tinder lol. It's so odd.
 

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I tried christian date for free but it was a barren wasteland here in Australia, i kept getting messages from filipina girls though I'm not looking fot a penpal.
Have you tried visiting Hillsong church?
 

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Have you tried visiting Hillsong church?
After our lockdown ends i plan to give it a go, we have had the livestream services for a while but i have never once bothered with that. My regular church is just the local Catholic one
 

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In the United States, fewer heterosexual couples are meeting through church or church-related activities. This is likely true across the world as well. A decline in religious participation is a part of this.

I am confident that some devoutly religious people are meeting longer term mates through church. This often results in marriage, as many faiths are against pre-marital sex.

Above age 25, it's unlikely to meet women through church related activities. In most faiths, if you go to their weekend services, you won't see many unattached people in their 20s/30s attending. The demographics tend to be older empty nesters and some young families.

The point of the cliques is real. It's a challenge to break into those if you've just moved to an area or are new in some way. You can make it in if you're persistent enough.
 

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After our lockdown ends i plan to give it a go, we have had the livestream services for a while but i have never once bothered with that. My regular church is just the local Catholic one
That is where all the yonge adult ladies are. Your regular church probably has greyed out. You need to go where all the action is mate.
 
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