Meeting Women at Church

[El Roi]

Spam approach is just being social and talking to everyone around you. If a female shows greater interest then get her number. Otherwise keep it moving. You aren't focus on anyone in particular, your enjoying life.

Thanks for the reply @mrgoodstuff. I was thinking about this today (context, I want an LTR). Today I realized I have a problem:

When I'm out of town I see a girl and I'm like "nah, I'm gonna be gone in a week. Pointless to approach and I don't wanna deal with her getting attached then having to break stuff off and hurting someone. It's a pointless train to nowhere."

Then when I'm home I'm like "I don't wanna take this girl out when everyone I know will be breathing down both of our necks wanting to know all our business and starting dumb drama. That stuff wears me out/gives me dread."

SPAM is exactly what I want though. Thoughts, experience, examples, advice?

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Also, you've been here awhile; you may know some answers to this problem I made a post about that's gotten 0 answers. Appreciate you bro, thanks again for the response

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Thanks for the reply @mrgoodstuff. I was thinking about this today (context, I want an LTR). Today I realized I have a problem:

When I'm out of town I see a girl and I'm like "nah, I'm gonna be gone in a week. Pointless to approach and I don't wanna deal with her getting attached then having to break stuff off and hurting someone. It's a pointless train to nowhere."

Then when I'm home I'm like "I don't wanna take this girl out when everyone I know will be breathing down both of our necks wanting to know all our business and starting dumb drama. That stuff wears me out/gives me dread."

SPAM is exactly what I want though. Thoughts, experience, examples, advice?

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Also, you've been here awhile; you may know some answers to this problem I made a post about that's gotten 0 answers. Appreciate you bro, thanks again for the response

Spam simply means being social

 

[PRW63]

Respect!

Young blood today pops his cherry at like 30 and turns into ****ing Bambi. #pathetic!

I went though the early years without knowing what I was doing. Wish I would have figured it out much sooner,...but there was no one teaching it. Red Pill hadnt even been heard of back then. So you either had kids who learned from dad who knew what he was doing from the 1940's, 1950's,...or you didn't,... and got brain washed with the feminist Blue Pill crap from the 1970's, 1980's, and onward. My dad was married 7 times, so in spite of his other issues, the one thing he definitely knew how to do was pickup chicks and how to escalate. (He just could keep it together after that). But I didn't grow up with him and didn't learn the pickup skills, the "charm" skills, etc. So I had to learn the hard way.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I went though the early years without knowing what I was doing. Wish I would have figured it out much sooner,...but there was no one teaching it. Red Pill hadnt even been heard of back then. So you either had kids who learned from dad who knew what he was doing from the 1940's, 1950's,...or you didn't,... and got brain washed with the feminist Blue Pill crap from the 1970's, 1980's, and onward. My dad was married 7 times, so in spite of his other issues, the one thing he definitely knew how to do was pickup chicks and how to escalate. (He just could keep it together after that). But I didn't grow up with him and didn't learn the pickup skills, the "charm" skills, etc. So I had to learn the hard way.

Was he picking women who do him dirty or was he leaving?

 

[Imarriedawinner71]

I still very much like that. Not true, however. I have seen and have been what you tell; I tried many different paths and that is one of them. Biology was in force before religion was invented. The only ones it works for is if the man is a natural alpha (for lack of a better name to call it). Perhaps if the woman really has a mind, heart, emotion all focused to serve god then maybe. I never met such a woman and I did look in the places we would expect to find such. Plenty of women play that holy status game, however. I even married one that fit those descriptions you tell of... It was a very long time ago. When trials came, she went. I was a good man but not anything like an alpha, just the opposite, and all trust was with God about it.

I now believe God helps those that help themself and I also believe much in the teachings of Ecclesiastes.

Do you have any evidence or example/samples? Most celebrity-level Christians all end up with problems.

I would try going to a REAL Christian church,you most likely went to an apostate church so you met an evil woman pretending to be a Christian.You have to let God pick out the woman by providence (not you doing the picking)

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I went though the early years without knowing what I was doing. Wish I would have figured it out much sooner,...but there was no one teaching it. Red Pill hadnt even been heard of back then. So you either had kids who learned from dad who knew what he was doing from the 1940's, 1950's,...or you didn't,... and got brain washed with the feminist Blue Pill crap from the 1970's, 1980's, and onward. My dad was married 7 times, so in spite of his other issues, the one thing he definitely knew how to do was pickup chicks and how to escalate. (He just could keep it together after that). But I didn't grow up with him and didn't learn the pickup skills, the "charm" skills, etc. So I had to learn the hard way.

I got respect for men like you and @Striamong others who are on this path regardless of age or monogamy. Troy is nearing 50. He's not a blogger. He's not screaming hypergamy into YouTube. He's approaching with TUSK via podcast. On air in real time. Buddy has balls. Most are secretly married or shilling some rubbish ebook. Miniscule men live this lifestyle.

Respect. What's your focus atm?

 

[Georgepithyou]

I would try going to a REAL Christian church,you most likely went to an apostate church so you met an evil woman pretending to be a Christian.You have to let God pick out the woman by providence (not you doing the picking)

Thise real churchs are usually full of 50+ year olds. Believe me i went to a ultra conservative latin mass church here in sydney. I was the youngest person by a wide margin. It's slim picking out here in Australia where post people are not religious

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Thise real churchs are usually full of 50+ year olds. Believe me i went to a ultra conservative latin mass church here in sydney. I was the youngest person by a wide margin. It's slim picking out here in Australia where post people are not religious

Are you better IN or OUT of the churche environment for those things?

 

[Georgepithyou]

Are you better IN or OUT of the churche environment for those things?

I think if we all had a better sense of community, more people would have faith. I'm in the crowd that goes to church for the community/social aspect. I want to be around like minded individuals who share my values.

I went to a secular school and i was probably the only religious person, in that environment i drifted away from religion since none of my peers were Christian. There was no support group.

The only Christians my age were cultural ones who would pick and choose what to believe in, one female relative would sloot it up all week and go church on sundays to confess her sins as if that somehow makes things better?

 

[metalwater]

I would try going to a REAL Christian church,you most likely went to an apostate church so you met an evil woman pretending to be a Christian.You have to let God pick out the woman by providence (not you doing the picking)

I get it.

what would you recommend as a real church and why? tell it like it is.

 

[PRW63]

Was he picking women who do him dirty or was he leaving?

Not sure. Didn't grow up with him. I suspect he just didn't keep it in his pants and kept getting caught. But don't really know.

 

[Imarriedawinner71]

I get it.

what would you recommend as a real church and why? tell it like it is.

I would go to a reformed baptist church.They preach God as sovereign and predestination.They also teach the proper roles of men and women in church.They are no perfect churches but they preach the Bible as the word of God. (Inerrant) pure Christian women are in these churches I have seen them and they are blessed with beauty competition is fierce.Do not go to an arminian church !! Fakes are everywhere us the Holy Spirit for guidance.If you are not celibate while looking expect NO help from God.

 

[metalwater]

I would go to a reformed baptist church.They preach God as sovereign and predestination.They also teach the proper roles of men and women in church.They are no perfect churches but they preach the Bible as the word of God. (Inerrant) pure Christian women are in these churches I have seen them and they are blessed with beauty competition is fierce.Do not go to an arminian church !! Fakes are everywhere us the Holy Spirit for guidance.If you are not celibate while looking expect NO help from God.

I have some different background in a few Christian religion. As this is a forum about man/woman relations, tell me more about the women you talk about. Your welcome also to PM me about any of these other topics. But the about women has value for the other posters also.

In your opinion why are these women better. Is it any in the church or only those that are raised from a child in the church? What do these women desire in a man?

 

[bario]

I know few of my Assyrians friends who met their partners and got married this way!

 

[SW15]

Only a small % of men can make meeting women at church viable.

It would be the under 25 subset (likely under 21) or the 50-55+ subset of divorcees and widows.

Most religions are anti pre-marital sex. Therefore, most SoSuave participants probably aren't going to find a community within churches.

Devout under 21 or 25 people will find other devout people and they'll marry and have 3+ kids.

The elderly will come together after a divorce or widowing.

 

[Imarriedawinner71]

Only a small % of men can make meeting women at church viable.

It would be the under 25 subset (likely under 21) or the 50-55+ subset of divorcees and widows.

Most religions are anti pre-marital sex. Therefore, most SoSuave participants probably aren't going to find a community within churches.

Devout under 21 or 25 people will find other devout people and they'll marry and have 3+ kids.

The elderly will come together after a divorce or widowing.

Yes but those 21 year old devout women will marry a celibate 50+ year old because there are so few real Christians.

 

[SW15]

Yes but those 21 year old devout women will marry a celibate 50+ year old because there are so few real Christians.

The Millennials (1981/82-1996) have mainly dropped out from church. A big part of why Millennials dropped out from church was the no pre-marital sex thing. Gen X'ers lived a longer single life and had some amount of pre-marital sex (Melrose Place was a TV representation of Gen X'ers in their 20s banging) but the Millennial generation lived this lifestyle in larger numbers.

 

[Georgepithyou]

Yes but those 21 year old devout women will marry a celibate 50+ year old because there are so few real Christians.

Trust me when i say this, there are no shortage of celibate young men, some by choice but mostly involuntary.

There are way more young devout Christian men then women. Idk what church you go to that has young women marrying old men but i have certainly never seen such a thing.

 

[SW15]

Trust me when i say this, there are no shortage of celibate young men, some by choice but mostly involuntary.

The typical celibate man under 30 is watching a ton of porn. He might even be an OnlyFans user.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

The typical celibate man under 30 is watching a ton of porn. He might even be an OnlyFans user.

I think it's cruel to young males to make prostitution illegal.

It forces them to cater to what some delusional wannabe princesses like. They end up turning into females themselves.