"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Meeting my ex. Befriend or ignore?

Blaise

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I have to see her in a mutual friend meeting at my former college. She has a wide range of cute female friends, most of my friends left my life last year, when we broke up.

Should I ignore this b*tch who cheated on me (intimacy issues), or play a mind game with her and just use her for connex.

I heard she still "loves" me for "being the purest person" LOL (we were really close once when I was UBER Afc). She's a nutcase and emotionally unstable. But I know her so well, I can make her do things she won't do for other guys and destroy her life. But that would be really d*ckish of me to do that and would waste my time.

Anyway, I'm over her (no contact for almost a year) and being her friend (not a close one) is not a big problem for me as long as it gets me @ss.

I wanna know your take. Either way, I just wanna have better social networking and its not working out for me right now (school, karate, full time job).
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Avoid her like the plaque. Meeting to befriend her is in invitation to hell especially if she's unstable emotionally. Get a new chick and forget her completely.
 

Joe Stud

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since you are going to be force into a meeting... be friendly, so you dont come off as utterly bitter and "damaged for life". if you say you CAN be friends without getting attached, you can go ahead. however this is dangerous, and you should not get close
 
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