Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Meeting my ex. Befriend or ignore?

Blaise

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I have to see her in a mutual friend meeting at my former college. She has a wide range of cute female friends, most of my friends left my life last year, when we broke up.

Should I ignore this b*tch who cheated on me (intimacy issues), or play a mind game with her and just use her for connex.

I heard she still "loves" me for "being the purest person" LOL (we were really close once when I was UBER Afc). She's a nutcase and emotionally unstable. But I know her so well, I can make her do things she won't do for other guys and destroy her life. But that would be really d*ckish of me to do that and would waste my time.

Anyway, I'm over her (no contact for almost a year) and being her friend (not a close one) is not a big problem for me as long as it gets me @ss.

I wanna know your take. Either way, I just wanna have better social networking and its not working out for me right now (school, karate, full time job).
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Avoid her like the plaque. Meeting to befriend her is in invitation to hell especially if she's unstable emotionally. Get a new chick and forget her completely.
 

Joe Stud

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since you are going to be force into a meeting... be friendly, so you dont come off as utterly bitter and "damaged for life". if you say you CAN be friends without getting attached, you can go ahead. however this is dangerous, and you should not get close
 
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