"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Meeting my ex. Befriend or ignore?

Blaise

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I have to see her in a mutual friend meeting at my former college. She has a wide range of cute female friends, most of my friends left my life last year, when we broke up.

Should I ignore this b*tch who cheated on me (intimacy issues), or play a mind game with her and just use her for connex.

I heard she still "loves" me for "being the purest person" LOL (we were really close once when I was UBER Afc). She's a nutcase and emotionally unstable. But I know her so well, I can make her do things she won't do for other guys and destroy her life. But that would be really d*ckish of me to do that and would waste my time.

Anyway, I'm over her (no contact for almost a year) and being her friend (not a close one) is not a big problem for me as long as it gets me @ss.

I wanna know your take. Either way, I just wanna have better social networking and its not working out for me right now (school, karate, full time job).
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Avoid her like the plaque. Meeting to befriend her is in invitation to hell especially if she's unstable emotionally. Get a new chick and forget her completely.
 

Joe Stud

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since you are going to be force into a meeting... be friendly, so you dont come off as utterly bitter and "damaged for life". if you say you CAN be friends without getting attached, you can go ahead. however this is dangerous, and you should not get close
 
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