Dictatorsaurus
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What are good way to know girls better in your class and keeping in touch with them? I'm about college level.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Meeting girls in class
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Dapper Swindler
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1. Approach empty seat next to girl
2. Ask "Mind if I sit here?" (She will always say yes)
3. Say "Hello"
4. Say "My name is ___"
5. She will say her name. Say "nice to meet you"
6. Shake hands
7. Say something about the class that will lead to topics of conversation. Ex: "Is this class in your major" Followup: "What are you majoring in?"
8. Continue conversation. Remember to smile, make eye contact, kino if possible.
Even I can do this!
2. Ask "Mind if I sit here?" (She will always say yes)
3. Say "Hello"
4. Say "My name is ___"
5. She will say her name. Say "nice to meet you"
6. Shake hands
7. Say something about the class that will lead to topics of conversation. Ex: "Is this class in your major" Followup: "What are you majoring in?"
8. Continue conversation. Remember to smile, make eye contact, kino if possible.
Even I can do this!
Playboi0323
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"Let me get your number just in case I miss a class so I can find out what I missed."
Sounds cheezy, but keep it to that effect and it will work mos def.
And if you don't thank me, I will be mad.
Sounds cheezy, but keep it to that effect and it will work mos def.
And if you don't thank me, I will be mad.
I'm in college too, so here is what I do. Start out with a relevant comment/joke/question. Then just fire away with the generic questions:
So, whats your major, do you like this class, where are you from etc. Those are just used for conversation filler and to get a little background on the girl.
When it comes to the number, I have used both of these successfully this semester: "Why don't you give me your number" and ::Slide notbook over:: "write down your number for me"
So, whats your major, do you like this class, where are you from etc. Those are just used for conversation filler and to get a little background on the girl.
When it comes to the number, I have used both of these successfully this semester: "Why don't you give me your number" and ::Slide notbook over:: "write down your number for me"
chicksrock
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PERFECT!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Master Homer
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I agree on anything except the handshake. Go directly for the sholder grab.
Dictatorsaurus
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Shoulder grab?
Should I pull it hard in a sudden movement?!?
Should I pull it hard in a sudden movement?!?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
the only advice i can give with girls in class is just the same as for thoose with colleagous at work...don't bother with them you are already in the 'friends' class and the most difficult part is to jump from friends to lover, i am not saying it's impossible but it's just a bit difficult, the impossible part is when you want for some reason or other to stop your love-affair and jump from lover to friend again, that's impossible. Lovers never get to be friends again, and the other party will be hurt and be sure she will try to hurt you back especially if she sees you nearly every day