Dictatorsaurus
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What are good way to know girls better in your class and keeping in touch with them? I'm about college level.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Meeting girls in class
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Dapper Swindler
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1. Approach empty seat next to girl
2. Ask "Mind if I sit here?" (She will always say yes)
3. Say "Hello"
4. Say "My name is ___"
5. She will say her name. Say "nice to meet you"
6. Shake hands
7. Say something about the class that will lead to topics of conversation. Ex: "Is this class in your major" Followup: "What are you majoring in?"
8. Continue conversation. Remember to smile, make eye contact, kino if possible.
Even I can do this!
2. Ask "Mind if I sit here?" (She will always say yes)
3. Say "Hello"
4. Say "My name is ___"
5. She will say her name. Say "nice to meet you"
6. Shake hands
7. Say something about the class that will lead to topics of conversation. Ex: "Is this class in your major" Followup: "What are you majoring in?"
8. Continue conversation. Remember to smile, make eye contact, kino if possible.
Even I can do this!
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"Let me get your number just in case I miss a class so I can find out what I missed."
Sounds cheezy, but keep it to that effect and it will work mos def.
And if you don't thank me, I will be mad.
Sounds cheezy, but keep it to that effect and it will work mos def.
And if you don't thank me, I will be mad.
I'm in college too, so here is what I do. Start out with a relevant comment/joke/question. Then just fire away with the generic questions:
So, whats your major, do you like this class, where are you from etc. Those are just used for conversation filler and to get a little background on the girl.
When it comes to the number, I have used both of these successfully this semester: "Why don't you give me your number" and ::Slide notbook over:: "write down your number for me"
So, whats your major, do you like this class, where are you from etc. Those are just used for conversation filler and to get a little background on the girl.
When it comes to the number, I have used both of these successfully this semester: "Why don't you give me your number" and ::Slide notbook over:: "write down your number for me"
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PERFECT!
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Master Homer
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I agree on anything except the handshake. Go directly for the sholder grab.
Dictatorsaurus
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Shoulder grab?
Should I pull it hard in a sudden movement?!?
Should I pull it hard in a sudden movement?!?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
the only advice i can give with girls in class is just the same as for thoose with colleagous at work...don't bother with them you are already in the 'friends' class and the most difficult part is to jump from friends to lover, i am not saying it's impossible but it's just a bit difficult, the impossible part is when you want for some reason or other to stop your love-affair and jump from lover to friend again, that's impossible. Lovers never get to be friends again, and the other party will be hurt and be sure she will try to hurt you back especially if she sees you nearly every day