Dictatorsaurus
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What are good way to know girls better in your class and keeping in touch with them? I'm about college level.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Meeting girls in class
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Dapper Swindler
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1. Approach empty seat next to girl
2. Ask "Mind if I sit here?" (She will always say yes)
3. Say "Hello"
4. Say "My name is ___"
5. She will say her name. Say "nice to meet you"
6. Shake hands
7. Say something about the class that will lead to topics of conversation. Ex: "Is this class in your major" Followup: "What are you majoring in?"
8. Continue conversation. Remember to smile, make eye contact, kino if possible.
Even I can do this!
2. Ask "Mind if I sit here?" (She will always say yes)
3. Say "Hello"
4. Say "My name is ___"
5. She will say her name. Say "nice to meet you"
6. Shake hands
7. Say something about the class that will lead to topics of conversation. Ex: "Is this class in your major" Followup: "What are you majoring in?"
8. Continue conversation. Remember to smile, make eye contact, kino if possible.
Even I can do this!
Playboi0323
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"Let me get your number just in case I miss a class so I can find out what I missed."
Sounds cheezy, but keep it to that effect and it will work mos def.
And if you don't thank me, I will be mad.
Sounds cheezy, but keep it to that effect and it will work mos def.
And if you don't thank me, I will be mad.
I'm in college too, so here is what I do. Start out with a relevant comment/joke/question. Then just fire away with the generic questions:
So, whats your major, do you like this class, where are you from etc. Those are just used for conversation filler and to get a little background on the girl.
When it comes to the number, I have used both of these successfully this semester: "Why don't you give me your number" and ::Slide notbook over:: "write down your number for me"
So, whats your major, do you like this class, where are you from etc. Those are just used for conversation filler and to get a little background on the girl.
When it comes to the number, I have used both of these successfully this semester: "Why don't you give me your number" and ::Slide notbook over:: "write down your number for me"
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PERFECT!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Master Homer
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I agree on anything except the handshake. Go directly for the sholder grab.
Dictatorsaurus
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Shoulder grab?
Should I pull it hard in a sudden movement?!?
Should I pull it hard in a sudden movement?!?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
the only advice i can give with girls in class is just the same as for thoose with colleagous at work...don't bother with them you are already in the 'friends' class and the most difficult part is to jump from friends to lover, i am not saying it's impossible but it's just a bit difficult, the impossible part is when you want for some reason or other to stop your love-affair and jump from lover to friend again, that's impossible. Lovers never get to be friends again, and the other party will be hurt and be sure she will try to hurt you back especially if she sees you nearly every day