"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Meeting fellow DJs in your area.

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I thought in light of this new forum, there should be a few guidelines to help out people trying to make planned DJ events work.

Recommended procedure for meetings:

You will want to begin planning a date and time on your specified thread. Phone conversations are also possible. (Remember to be courteous and friendly; these are your fellow DJs).

If enough of people in your area can gather into a meeting of some sort, whoever would like to administrate this event should somehow contact everyone beforehand via phone or PM.

Most importantly: BE SAFE, and KNOW WHO YOU ARE LOOKING FOR. I don't, (and I'm sure anyone else administrating these events) want to be responsible for you meeting someone who is unsafe and unpredictable. Know what you are getting into beforehand.

We all want you to have fun and grow as awesome, leading individuals but that won't happen if you get abducted because you met the wrong people. Your safety comes first.

What you should know:
  • -Know the ages of the people you are to meet.
    -Know what they will be wearing.
    -Know how many of you will be there.
    -Know when, and where, and how long the whole event should take place, and where you will go.
    -Be SURE that everyone knows who to look for in a group.
    -Let everyone know if they will need money or something else.

Remember: failing to plan is planning to fail. Plan good, have fun, and be safe. :)
 
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The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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