"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Meeting fellow DJs in your area.

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I thought in light of this new forum, there should be a few guidelines to help out people trying to make planned DJ events work.

Recommended procedure for meetings:

You will want to begin planning a date and time on your specified thread. Phone conversations are also possible. (Remember to be courteous and friendly; these are your fellow DJs).

If enough of people in your area can gather into a meeting of some sort, whoever would like to administrate this event should somehow contact everyone beforehand via phone or PM.

Most importantly: BE SAFE, and KNOW WHO YOU ARE LOOKING FOR. I don't, (and I'm sure anyone else administrating these events) want to be responsible for you meeting someone who is unsafe and unpredictable. Know what you are getting into beforehand.

We all want you to have fun and grow as awesome, leading individuals but that won't happen if you get abducted because you met the wrong people. Your safety comes first.

What you should know:
  • -Know the ages of the people you are to meet.
    -Know what they will be wearing.
    -Know how many of you will be there.
    -Know when, and where, and how long the whole event should take place, and where you will go.
    -Be SURE that everyone knows who to look for in a group.
    -Let everyone know if they will need money or something else.

Remember: failing to plan is planning to fail. Plan good, have fun, and be safe. :)
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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