"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Meet the worst kind of girl...
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- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
This website was invented because of cüntbags like this one, hahaha. When she turns 40 and is still single, she'll take the first motherfücker she sees in traffic!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Mike32ct
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^This.synergy1 said:
Yeah she's an evil b&tch, no doubt.
But, as sad as it sounds, she's one of the more "friendly" and good natured ones by northeast standards. No exaggeration.
In real life around here, the conversation would have been over in two seconds. If you ONLY got an eyeroll, you did very well.
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The other side of the coin is women act very differently on camera.
With no camera or microphone, that would have been over before it started.
With no camera or microphone, that would have been over before it started.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
you realise that you've posted videos of yourself and your skinny little chicken arms on this site right?White Boy said:
Bro - do you even lift?:moon:
Many girls, especially those here in California (im from norcal), are shallow, spoiled, overly-expectant, materialistic, only as smart / cool / funny as they have to be, have absolutely nothing going on for them aside from their youth (aka decent figure / looks). Some women are just toxic and negative.bradd80 said:
Feminism has breeded a culture of idiocy and deservedness - "I deserve the BEST because I have a vagina". Women expect a lot while giving very little.
That you'll find just as many toxic women during the day or on a college campus as you will at a bar / party.
Most women are flakey and boring and predictable, they enjoy the comfort zone of going out 2-3 times a week - any girl that will go out and party on a weekend in lieu of hanging out with you is worth a **** and get up and that's about it. I honestly believe that a girl who drinks even once a week isn't worth it. Find a sober girl. Good luck if she's 18-25 though....
There are a few diamonds in the rough, that are still feminine, smile with their eyes, are intelligent, not boisterous, aren't sloots/10, kind, sweet, caring, sexy and sexual for you, innocent - these characteristics though, in an age of cell phone obsession and social self absorption are rare.
Just the random thoughts of a Cali dude
P.S. you weren't the only one who laughed at the chicken arms comment
The vast majority really do think they are top shelf just because they have vaginas. The culture and media have reinforced this for them.
I wonder, though, if that conversation would have gone differently if the dude wasn't about on par with her.
I wonder, though, if that conversation would have gone differently if the dude wasn't about on par with her.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
+1 QFTbradd80 said:
I know physical attraction can't be helped, but I'm still in the age bracket where girls my age are still way off in their expectations vs. reality.
I go out most days wondering if life is as bad as I think it is, and this video I just saw ascertains that it is.
I go out most days wondering if life is as bad as I think it is, and this video I just saw ascertains that it is.
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Purefilth
Master Don Juan
Really? thats just a repeat of what I said to you. Come back with something original.White Boy said:
Actually - dont. If I wanted any comeback - I would wipe it off your chin.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.