"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Meet the worst kind of girl...
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
This website was invented because of cüntbags like this one, hahaha. When she turns 40 and is still single, she'll take the first motherfücker she sees in traffic!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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^This.synergy1 said:
Yeah she's an evil b&tch, no doubt.
But, as sad as it sounds, she's one of the more "friendly" and good natured ones by northeast standards. No exaggeration.
In real life around here, the conversation would have been over in two seconds. If you ONLY got an eyeroll, you did very well.
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The other side of the coin is women act very differently on camera.
With no camera or microphone, that would have been over before it started.
With no camera or microphone, that would have been over before it started.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
you realise that you've posted videos of yourself and your skinny little chicken arms on this site right?White Boy said:
Bro - do you even lift?:moon:
Many girls, especially those here in California (im from norcal), are shallow, spoiled, overly-expectant, materialistic, only as smart / cool / funny as they have to be, have absolutely nothing going on for them aside from their youth (aka decent figure / looks). Some women are just toxic and negative.bradd80 said:
Feminism has breeded a culture of idiocy and deservedness - "I deserve the BEST because I have a vagina". Women expect a lot while giving very little.
That you'll find just as many toxic women during the day or on a college campus as you will at a bar / party.
Most women are flakey and boring and predictable, they enjoy the comfort zone of going out 2-3 times a week - any girl that will go out and party on a weekend in lieu of hanging out with you is worth a **** and get up and that's about it. I honestly believe that a girl who drinks even once a week isn't worth it. Find a sober girl. Good luck if she's 18-25 though....
There are a few diamonds in the rough, that are still feminine, smile with their eyes, are intelligent, not boisterous, aren't sloots/10, kind, sweet, caring, sexy and sexual for you, innocent - these characteristics though, in an age of cell phone obsession and social self absorption are rare.
Just the random thoughts of a Cali dude
P.S. you weren't the only one who laughed at the chicken arms comment
The vast majority really do think they are top shelf just because they have vaginas. The culture and media have reinforced this for them.
I wonder, though, if that conversation would have gone differently if the dude wasn't about on par with her.
I wonder, though, if that conversation would have gone differently if the dude wasn't about on par with her.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
+1 QFTbradd80 said:
I know physical attraction can't be helped, but I'm still in the age bracket where girls my age are still way off in their expectations vs. reality.
I go out most days wondering if life is as bad as I think it is, and this video I just saw ascertains that it is.
I go out most days wondering if life is as bad as I think it is, and this video I just saw ascertains that it is.
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Purefilth
Master Don Juan
Really? thats just a repeat of what I said to you. Come back with something original.White Boy said:
Actually - dont. If I wanted any comeback - I would wipe it off your chin.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.