You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
^This.synergy1 said:i know much worse in my social circle - much worse. She is only slightly below average in attitude around here, but better looking. Not even joking.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
you realise that you've posted videos of yourself and your skinny little chicken arms on this site right?White Boy said:Dude needs to hit the gym
Many girls, especially those here in California (im from norcal), are shallow, spoiled, overly-expectant, materialistic, only as smart / cool / funny as they have to be, have absolutely nothing going on for them aside from their youth (aka decent figure / looks). Some women are just toxic and negative.bradd80 said:i'm surprised some guys are shocked by this girl's attitude.. this is what 95% of women are like - nothing to offer while wanting perfection in return.
So me and my friend take you and your cousin out on a first date and we pay for both your meals? Prostitute mentality at it's finest gotta love women this is why it's so hard for guys to date and why the divorce rate is 60%
btw lol @ the skinny chicken arms comment
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
+1 QFTbradd80 said:that's a good point.. i bet if the guy was tall dark and handsome (her type) she would have hidden her b*tchy side much better.. but bc she didn't give a fvck what the interviewer thought of her, she just let loose and was honest about how she really is.
Women are the craftiest, slimiest, sliest, most devious, manipulative, and cunning of creatures on earth. When they actually care about your opinion, they will watch how they act and what they say much much more carefully.
Purefilth, you need to pump some iron, you're looking on that skinnylicious man,Purefilth said:you realise that you've posted videos of yourself and your skinny little chicken arms on this site right?
Bro - do you even lift?:moon:
Really? thats just a repeat of what I said to you. Come back with something original.White Boy said:Purefilth, you need to pump some iron, you're looking on that skinnylicious man,
you need to go milk the cows, you look smaaaaaaaaalll.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.