"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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DJinTraining06

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I gotta meet this girls parents soon. We went on 4 dates, and she mentioned that her parents wanna meet me. (She's 23 she lives with them)

Any tips on meeting parents? how to act, what to say, etc.

Meeting folks is prob one of the most nervewracking thigns in life for me, im so afraid of making a bad imporession, cuz girls get swayed by their families and friends opinions very quick.

Any tips on how to talk to them? my last gf's mom did not like me, i wasnt funny enuff for her apprarently. She was always saying i was quiet. But she was so dumb i couldnt ever think of anythign to talk about with her. So i dunno, maybe with more intelligent people it aint so bad. What do u guys do? Do u try and act funny? or just polite
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Show them your personality, that's what they want to see.
 
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It is a sales interview. Smile, relax, and steer conversation topics toward the other person. Look around the house for pictures on the wall or travel souvenirs that give you something to ask about to get them talking.

If you have time, flip through "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie. It is an old book, but it contains very fundamental advice that will advance your people skills rapidly. It's also a short book and quick to read.
 
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F*ck pretending to be someone else (reading those stupid "how to be social" books) Just be friendly and be true to yourself.
 
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