"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Meet the parents

DJinTraining06

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I gotta meet this girls parents soon. We went on 4 dates, and she mentioned that her parents wanna meet me. (She's 23 she lives with them)

Any tips on meeting parents? how to act, what to say, etc.

Meeting folks is prob one of the most nervewracking thigns in life for me, im so afraid of making a bad imporession, cuz girls get swayed by their families and friends opinions very quick.

Any tips on how to talk to them? my last gf's mom did not like me, i wasnt funny enuff for her apprarently. She was always saying i was quiet. But she was so dumb i couldnt ever think of anythign to talk about with her. So i dunno, maybe with more intelligent people it aint so bad. What do u guys do? Do u try and act funny? or just polite
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Show them your personality, that's what they want to see.
 

Bible_Belt

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It is a sales interview. Smile, relax, and steer conversation topics toward the other person. Look around the house for pictures on the wall or travel souvenirs that give you something to ask about to get them talking.

If you have time, flip through "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie. It is an old book, but it contains very fundamental advice that will advance your people skills rapidly. It's also a short book and quick to read.
 

Hitman10000

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F*ck pretending to be someone else (reading those stupid "how to be social" books) Just be friendly and be true to yourself.
 
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