"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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meet girl at apt complex...

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Had our first date went well. Took her out to eat then we went to my place and watched movies (kissed/groped). Shes 19 year old college girl, Im 28 with a high paying job and just moved to this small town. I work long hours and only hangout with my coworkers.

I'm working on staying busy...buiding balance in my life and not giving so much of my happiness % to women. Also talking to women and approaching every chance I get. So I see her after date 1 and try to kinda avoid her glance as Im sure she was going out and I was gonna stay in (no one to chill with and dont want to go out alone in this town).

How do I not look like a loser when she obviously knows I'm home while she goes partying with her college friends? Also on my off days I sometimes go clubbing in nearby big cities but cant all the time cause it gets expensive. I plan on calling her in a few days for date 2 I just dont want to appear always available when I'm off work.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You're 28 with a high paying job, what are you worried about looking like a loser for? You just moved there, so she shouldn't expect you to know everybody in town yet. Fact is: You're higher value than she is, so don't start thinking insecure.

Maybe you can find some activities/hobbies/clubs/sports/classes to meet some people at, or maybe some coworkers will be throwing some parties where you can meet some people at?

Also, note that she's 19. It's not like you're likely to be hooked up with her permanently. Who cares what she thinks? It's good that you're looking for more options.
 
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Will do

Thanks...yeah I'm working on staying busy and building up my hobbies and interests. I'm gonna continue what I'm doing and meet other girls too. She flaked out by the way, but shes young. I'll move on, still more women.
 
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