"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Recently I just found this out. My uncle just got me into meditations and this sh*t actually works. What you do is breathe in your nose and count it, then breate out your mouth slowly. But everytimes you breath in count it and breath out count it. you do this till you get to ten or to onehundred it doesnt matter. Well what this does is it makes you feel really relaxed. Also another way is sit up staright and think about somewhere you want to be or someone you want to talk to. breathe in and out for a few minutes daydreaming basically with your eyes opened or closed. When I do this one I pretend im at a beach with a hot chick. So anyways after I meditate I go to the local store and talk with chicks, and to let you know it actually works. it makes you calm and stuff. so give it a try.

killbill
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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jesus christ, man, you're going to talk to a chick, not jump out of a plane
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I 'meditate' before i go to bed sometimes, or even if im going through stressfull times such as exams, it really is extremly relaxing.
 

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a lot of NLP tools are basically meditations
 

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Meditation is relaxing but more importantly, it oxygenates the body. O2 is good for you. Do deep breathing even if you're not going out to chat up chicks.
 

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Marlimus said:
jesus christ, man, you're going to talk to a chick, not jump out of a plane


haha....I couldn't help laughing because that's the truth. It's just a chick.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I'd have to say that the fact that you're calm makes you seem more confident and think straight.....
women can sense this and its always to your advantage to be calm cus at the same time you seem careless, thus, a challenge.
 

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LOL! This doesnt really make you more cofidente. NOt for me. PLus its weird, by the time you do it, there will be 999 guys talking to her :D
 

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well its not like to telling you guys to meditate in the goddamn club...lol
 

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If you were ever prone to having panic attacks, meditating is ...imperative.
 

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Whatever works best for you is what you should stick with. If it helps your game then by all means give 'er.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Trainspotting is very relaxing! Don't you agree? :p

So is going to the toilet and reading printouts of the latest online conspiracy theories.

But how is it practical in everyday random occurences you cannot plan? Plus if you treat a woman just like you would any other person you are likely to get further because you don't give off the vibe "this is a once in a lifetime opportunity" or "man, i'm talking to a girl this IS my lucky day".

So for getting women, unless your going to a yoga class with lots of fit chicks i'd say :down:
 

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killbill said:
Recently I just found this out. My uncle just got me into meditations and this sh*t actually works. What you do is breathe in your nose and count it, then breate out your mouth slowly. But everytimes you breath in count it and breath out count it. you do this till you get to ten or to onehundred it doesnt matter. Well what this does is it makes you feel really relaxed. Also another way is sit up staright and think about somewhere you want to be or someone you want to talk to. breathe in and out for a few minutes daydreaming basically with your eyes opened or closed. When I do this one I pretend im at a beach with a hot chick. So anyways after I meditate I go to the local store and talk with chicks, and to let you know it actually works. it makes you calm and stuff. so give it a try.

killbill
by the time you are done meditating, the girl will already be home with some other guy.
 
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