"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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meditation before talking with chicks

killbill

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Recently I just found this out. My uncle just got me into meditations and this sh*t actually works. What you do is breathe in your nose and count it, then breate out your mouth slowly. But everytimes you breath in count it and breath out count it. you do this till you get to ten or to onehundred it doesnt matter. Well what this does is it makes you feel really relaxed. Also another way is sit up staright and think about somewhere you want to be or someone you want to talk to. breathe in and out for a few minutes daydreaming basically with your eyes opened or closed. When I do this one I pretend im at a beach with a hot chick. So anyways after I meditate I go to the local store and talk with chicks, and to let you know it actually works. it makes you calm and stuff. so give it a try.

killbill
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Marlimus

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jesus christ, man, you're going to talk to a chick, not jump out of a plane
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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I 'meditate' before i go to bed sometimes, or even if im going through stressfull times such as exams, it really is extremly relaxing.
 

enDo

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a lot of NLP tools are basically meditations
 

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Meditation is relaxing but more importantly, it oxygenates the body. O2 is good for you. Do deep breathing even if you're not going out to chat up chicks.
 

FM 3321

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Marlimus said:
jesus christ, man, you're going to talk to a chick, not jump out of a plane


haha....I couldn't help laughing because that's the truth. It's just a chick.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'd have to say that the fact that you're calm makes you seem more confident and think straight.....
women can sense this and its always to your advantage to be calm cus at the same time you seem careless, thus, a challenge.
 

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LOL! This doesnt really make you more cofidente. NOt for me. PLus its weird, by the time you do it, there will be 999 guys talking to her :D
 

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well its not like to telling you guys to meditate in the goddamn club...lol
 

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If you were ever prone to having panic attacks, meditating is ...imperative.
 

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Whatever works best for you is what you should stick with. If it helps your game then by all means give 'er.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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NthDegree

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Trainspotting is very relaxing! Don't you agree? :p

So is going to the toilet and reading printouts of the latest online conspiracy theories.

But how is it practical in everyday random occurences you cannot plan? Plus if you treat a woman just like you would any other person you are likely to get further because you don't give off the vibe "this is a once in a lifetime opportunity" or "man, i'm talking to a girl this IS my lucky day".

So for getting women, unless your going to a yoga class with lots of fit chicks i'd say :down:
 

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killbill said:
Recently I just found this out. My uncle just got me into meditations and this sh*t actually works. What you do is breathe in your nose and count it, then breate out your mouth slowly. But everytimes you breath in count it and breath out count it. you do this till you get to ten or to onehundred it doesnt matter. Well what this does is it makes you feel really relaxed. Also another way is sit up staright and think about somewhere you want to be or someone you want to talk to. breathe in and out for a few minutes daydreaming basically with your eyes opened or closed. When I do this one I pretend im at a beach with a hot chick. So anyways after I meditate I go to the local store and talk with chicks, and to let you know it actually works. it makes you calm and stuff. so give it a try.

killbill
by the time you are done meditating, the girl will already be home with some other guy.
 
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