"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ME ... Who I am ? ? ?

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Once a friend wrote kay did you ever think that who we are ......... if not then do so

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This phrase of him made me think that yeah ........... I do get this question hitting my mind at times but then I dont get any answer to this. If thought in depth, you can understand that 'I' dont even exist. Point towards the hand & it becomes 'my hand', feel your heart then it'll be called 'my heart', think of your body & it'll come as 'my body', voice ...... again it's the same 'my voice' ........... but despite of all these things I feel uncomfortable n rebellious when I cannot find my own self in all these ........

A group of religious ppl had teenagera with them. There was a lad who was always sans shirt, hair long n a long mala sort of neck-lace was his speciality. He never used to indulge in nonsense stuff .......... verbally n physically. People started calling him 'mala wala' n since then no one ever remebered his real name. One morning one naughty boy took that mala out of his neck while he was sleeping n wore himself. When that mala boy woke up he saw that other boy standing smiling in front of him with his mala in his neck. From the depth of his heart .......... pain emerged .......... which was visible in his voice too n facial expressions that
'You became ME & where did I go' .................

 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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26 views but no input ... maybe girls are not involved :)
 

The Bad Ass Canadian

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this is nothing against you, but you wrote it in Red which, for me is the hardest colour to read on my screen... against the forum background. It's really difficult to make out lettering, somtimes.

Also, seeing as english is not your native tongue, it's actually kinda hard to understand what you're saying. The phrasing is really weird.

Those 2 reasons could be why no one has replied.
 

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I love you.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Originally posted by The Bad Ass Canadian

Also, seeing as english is not your native tongue, it's actually kinda hard to understand what you're saying. The phrasing is really weird.

ghazala,

Your post makes no sense. Closed.
 
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