"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ME ... Who I am ? ? ?

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Once a friend wrote kay did you ever think that who we are ......... if not then do so

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This phrase of him made me think that yeah ........... I do get this question hitting my mind at times but then I dont get any answer to this. If thought in depth, you can understand that 'I' dont even exist. Point towards the hand & it becomes 'my hand', feel your heart then it'll be called 'my heart', think of your body & it'll come as 'my body', voice ...... again it's the same 'my voice' ........... but despite of all these things I feel uncomfortable n rebellious when I cannot find my own self in all these ........

A group of religious ppl had teenagera with them. There was a lad who was always sans shirt, hair long n a long mala sort of neck-lace was his speciality. He never used to indulge in nonsense stuff .......... verbally n physically. People started calling him 'mala wala' n since then no one ever remebered his real name. One morning one naughty boy took that mala out of his neck while he was sleeping n wore himself. When that mala boy woke up he saw that other boy standing smiling in front of him with his mala in his neck. From the depth of his heart .......... pain emerged .......... which was visible in his voice too n facial expressions that
'You became ME & where did I go' .................

 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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26 views but no input ... maybe girls are not involved :)
 

The Bad Ass Canadian

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this is nothing against you, but you wrote it in Red which, for me is the hardest colour to read on my screen... against the forum background. It's really difficult to make out lettering, somtimes.

Also, seeing as english is not your native tongue, it's actually kinda hard to understand what you're saying. The phrasing is really weird.

Those 2 reasons could be why no one has replied.
 

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I love you.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by The Bad Ass Canadian

Also, seeing as english is not your native tongue, it's actually kinda hard to understand what you're saying. The phrasing is really weird.

ghazala,

Your post makes no sense. Closed.
 
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