"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ME ... Who I am ? ? ?

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Once a friend wrote kay did you ever think that who we are ......... if not then do so

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This phrase of him made me think that yeah ........... I do get this question hitting my mind at times but then I dont get any answer to this. If thought in depth, you can understand that 'I' dont even exist. Point towards the hand & it becomes 'my hand', feel your heart then it'll be called 'my heart', think of your body & it'll come as 'my body', voice ...... again it's the same 'my voice' ........... but despite of all these things I feel uncomfortable n rebellious when I cannot find my own self in all these ........

A group of religious ppl had teenagera with them. There was a lad who was always sans shirt, hair long n a long mala sort of neck-lace was his speciality. He never used to indulge in nonsense stuff .......... verbally n physically. People started calling him 'mala wala' n since then no one ever remebered his real name. One morning one naughty boy took that mala out of his neck while he was sleeping n wore himself. When that mala boy woke up he saw that other boy standing smiling in front of him with his mala in his neck. From the depth of his heart .......... pain emerged .......... which was visible in his voice too n facial expressions that
'You became ME & where did I go' .................

 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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26 views but no input ... maybe girls are not involved :)
 

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this is nothing against you, but you wrote it in Red which, for me is the hardest colour to read on my screen... against the forum background. It's really difficult to make out lettering, somtimes.

Also, seeing as english is not your native tongue, it's actually kinda hard to understand what you're saying. The phrasing is really weird.

Those 2 reasons could be why no one has replied.
 

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I love you.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by The Bad Ass Canadian

Also, seeing as english is not your native tongue, it's actually kinda hard to understand what you're saying. The phrasing is really weird.

ghazala,

Your post makes no sense. Closed.
 
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