Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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ME and my G/f are seeing who can go longer w/o masturbating

theonedude

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good lord, its only been 3 days!!

i notice im a lot hornier now tho, but its SOO hard.
altho i like feeling all lusty and stuff.
ne tips for staying the path and not masturbating.
cuz if i lose, she'll prolly think i have no self control.

P.S. i, of course have a good offense, and am trying to turn her on a lot, Quite fun.

soo, i need tips to turn her the hell on, like REALLY ON so that she caves, and i need soem tips for stayign with the not masturbatin.

plus these are always good cuz everyone reads these.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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PatrickWasHere

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Is ti masturbating, or doe sit include head and such?

If it does include head and whatnot, go with the 69 when you and her are really turned on. you'lll relieve eachother stress :)
 

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Just be like "Since we can't masturbate ourselves we can just help out each other" and get some play in. Oh, and if you really need to do it, how would she know? Is she gonna smell your **** for lotion?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ShizamDaMan

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You'll lose man, sorry. Longest I went was 20 days in a contest between friends.
 

Need-2-B-Pimpin

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I managed to go 16 years without it...so much for stopping now though.
 

Moonsong

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There's a "Zen Plateau" after two or three weeks. You just stop wanting to do it. Not that it kills your sex drive or anything, but it does get better. Good luck!
 

4nando

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moonsong speaks the truth. I can't remember the last time I yanked my chain, but it was quite some time ago. (We're talking months here though, which isn't that impressive except as a personal record.) After a while, you start to realize that sex isn't so important, and you don't need to masturbate constantly. Start applying it to other things, and suddenly you will see the events of your life and the past and the future come together. it's really weird when you realize that you're missing out on this when you masturbate. and then you just shun it forever.

go ahead, call me gay. i'd get angry if i weren't a zen master.
 

Nightspark

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lol i had something like that going down with my Ex... but it was less intense... and i won =) hehehe

just channel urr sex drive on something... pushups help, since they make ur arms tired and you yourself tired... on top of that you fitter each time.. so when urr horny channel it to something constructive like exercise...

if u wanna make her horny i guess u can start doing phone sex with her or something... works like a charm =) only if urr really descriptive and well good at it
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Kraken

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I personally try not to masturbate during certain time periods including: when I'm looking for girls, and when I'm with a girl. When I'm loaded with testosterone I feel much more energetic and outgoing with the ladies, and if I'm not single at the time, well, sex is just that much better.
 

niggah

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just **** another chick, thats not considered masterbation technically
 

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Hows she going to know if you jerk it? :confused:
 

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Originally posted by Need-2-B-Pimpin
I managed to go 16 years without it...so much for stopping now though.
dang, that's 3 years more than this guy
 

triple_ultima

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Originally posted by 4nando
moonsong speaks the truth. I can't remember the last time I yanked my chain, but it was quite some time ago. (We're talking months here though, which isn't that impressive except as a personal record.) After a while, you start to realize that sex isn't so important, and you don't need to masturbate constantly. Start applying it to other things, and suddenly you will see the events of your life and the past and the future come together. it's really weird when you realize that you're missing out on this when you masturbate. and then you just shun it forever.

go ahead, call me gay. i'd get angry if i weren't a zen master.
You have intrigued me. I just might have to try not flogging the dolphin, but man it'll be tough. I can't even go one day without it...:(

Oh and by the way, girls are insanely good at not "feeding the clam" when they don't want to. She'll probably win.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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