She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
lol dont get me wrong bro im not attacking you or this thread, sorry if it seemed that way, it was just on my mind today. my bud bought a playboy cuz a wwe chick was in it, I was like wtf i have vids of hotter girls doing way more.HandyAndy said:Ok, calm the hell down, the joke was that I put chuck norris' face on the other guys. Plus, who the hell has sex in running shoes?
He is 16. He is going to worship celebs. Part of growing up. I will have issues when he is 40 and still drooling over herpes infected celebs. Google Jessica Alba and Herpes.6-heads lewis said:lol dont get me wrong bro im not attacking you or this thread, sorry if it seemed that way, it was just on my mind today. my bud bought a playboy cuz a wwe chick was in it, I was like wtf i have vids of hotter girls doing way more.
its just weird to me the celeb worship. guys talking about alba and jess biel and all theyve done is walking around in bikinis.
i should have warned the links are porn my bad, i dont think anyone here is offended by hot chicks with jizz in their mouth.