You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
lol dont get me wrong bro im not attacking you or this thread, sorry if it seemed that way, it was just on my mind today. my bud bought a playboy cuz a wwe chick was in it, I was like wtf i have vids of hotter girls doing way more.HandyAndy said:Ok, calm the hell down, the joke was that I put chuck norris' face on the other guys. Plus, who the hell has sex in running shoes?
He is 16. He is going to worship celebs. Part of growing up. I will have issues when he is 40 and still drooling over herpes infected celebs. Google Jessica Alba and Herpes.6-heads lewis said:lol dont get me wrong bro im not attacking you or this thread, sorry if it seemed that way, it was just on my mind today. my bud bought a playboy cuz a wwe chick was in it, I was like wtf i have vids of hotter girls doing way more.
its just weird to me the celeb worship. guys talking about alba and jess biel and all theyve done is walking around in bikinis.
i should have warned the links are porn my bad, i dont think anyone here is offended by hot chicks with jizz in their mouth.