Metro3pilot
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whats the best way to deal with maybe's and we'll see when asking for a date
opinions ? ?
opinions ? ?
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
maybe and we'll see
- Thread starter Metro3pilot
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Docs
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Phone her up and tell her you're picking her up in 5 minutes. If she's sincerely busy, have a buddy on backup.
Tyrone Biggums
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maybe=no.
How do you react? Just say, "We'll talk some other time when you're more sure of your schedule."
Unless she's a doctor, there is no job where she could be called at ANY time, day or night, 7 days a week, and have to show up pronto.
How do you react? Just say, "We'll talk some other time when you're more sure of your schedule."
Unless she's a doctor, there is no job where she could be called at ANY time, day or night, 7 days a week, and have to show up pronto.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Metro3pilot
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Yes Flexion very direct ..
Aaron .. I like that, I told her " well when you figure it out let me know if were both still availible then we will go "
I ended up having something come up and can't make it anyway ..
I must like beating my head into the wall, the one thing I have noticed with women as I age is I keep picking the same chick over and over just her name and looks change but it's the same girl I swear ...
I have turned maybe's into a yes ...never been worth the effort so far :rockon:
Aaron .. I like that, I told her " well when you figure it out let me know if were both still availible then we will go "
I ended up having something come up and can't make it anyway ..
I must like beating my head into the wall, the one thing I have noticed with women as I age is I keep picking the same chick over and over just her name and looks change but it's the same girl I swear ...
I have turned maybe's into a yes ...never been worth the effort so far :rockon:
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
If you are in doubt if there is sufficent IL, ask yourself what she would have said if it was Brad Pitt asking and compare that answer to what she gave you.
Now in this case, what do you think she would have said if Brad Pitt had asked her out? Most probably she would have been warming up the lube and begging him to do her in the arse.
ANYTHING besides a 'yes' is a 'no' in womaneese. Unless she really is busy and offers you a counter date, her interest level is not sufficent. Also as mentioned above, keep spinning other plates.
Now in this case, what do you think she would have said if Brad Pitt had asked her out? Most probably she would have been warming up the lube and begging him to do her in the arse.
ANYTHING besides a 'yes' is a 'no' in womaneese. Unless she really is busy and offers you a counter date, her interest level is not sufficent. Also as mentioned above, keep spinning other plates.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.