"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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max times youve jerked it?

joekerr31

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whast the maximum number of times you've jerked it in a day?

for me it was 3
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJDamage

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I was a horny little teenager, I once did 6 times in one day and decided to jerk off for a seventh one just to have that lucky number.

I think I slept for like 14 hours stright the following day :D
 

KontrollerX

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Man I might of been able to get to three but it honestly hurts after the first time.
 

speakeasy

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mahon83050 said:
I think something like 11. THere have been multiple times I have done 7+ in a day. It gets real bad sometimes....I get depressed when I do it too much.
Your hands must have road rash by now, jesus christ.:confused:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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avrilishot

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the most in a day was 5 thats only happened twice lol.
 

smooth guy

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I used to do it a lot..about 3 or 4 times daily but I quit it and try to to jerk off only one every other day. When I don't feel like jerking off I don't.

I didn't mind jerking off that much as I saw no difference with the way I communicated with people, but too much masturbation caused me acne. Probably the only reason I don't do it as much now, I dont listen to all that bull**** that you're better with women if you don't masturbate.

I think people who have fetishes are bound to do it more often.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I once read a Playboy interview with Brett Michaels of Poison asking him how many times he'd had sex in a single day. His reply: "8 times with 5 different girls, and then I went home and beat off too." Heheh,..
 

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"I remember the first time I had sex, boy was I scared...I was all ALONE!"

- The late GREAT Rodney Dangerfield


Oh, and to answer the question: Probably about 3 times once a LONG time ago = Morning, noon, and GOOD night. lol
 

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Yea right Speakeasy, you probably never got over 1.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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joekerr31

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navyseal2101 said:
Yea right Speakeasy, you probably never got over 1.
he got 2 one day, but it doesn't really count since his mom had to help him.

:p
 

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8 back when i 1st discovered it. oh man my **** never hurt so bad. thank God im a guy or i woulda had nothing to play with
 

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I think 7 or 8 times. God I was sore and it hurt. It hurt while I peed!
 

jt the azn

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I think about 3 times, and my **** hurt so bad. I used to use soap when I first discovered it. Oh man, did it sting to pee.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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