"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Matthew McCounaghey is a man's man!

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Have you ever met a chick who did not like this guy? I haven't

You gotta admire the guy though. He is not a pretty boy like Leo Dicaprio, Jude Law, Johnny Depp or Paul Walker.

He looks like how a man should look like. Handsome, but does not have a pretty face

He was great in U-571
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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are you gay?

he has good looks and is admired by media, besides acting you think that chump would have some serios game on his own?

i dont think so

total AFC, just pay attention to his interviews!!!
 

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and you been here since 2000

get off the pc for a week and get some pu$$y bro
 

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The title of the thread threw me off a little. But anyway, was he in that movie Sahara? I keep seeing bits of that movie on TV.
 

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paintballz said:
are you gay?

he has good looks and is admired by media, besides acting you think that chump would have some serios game on his own?

i dont think so

total AFC, just pay attention to his interviews!!!
You must be still in high school. It is NOT GAY to admire another mans good looks, it means you are secure with your sexuality.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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build your own kingdom and stop jocking his

have you even read the bible yet?

for the love of god man you sound like a violent celebrity stalker

READ THE BIBLE!:up:
 

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One thing I really admire about the guy is that he's 38 and in amazing physical condition that would put most 20 year olds to shame.

I hear so many people in their late 20s whining about being too old to get in shape, and (especially with me being 30) I find him an inspiration.
 

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he works out a lot and thats cool.

but when i found out that he never wears deoderant - and i mean NEVER - he dropped a few rankings as a cool dude in my book.

i dont get him. he shaves off all body hair - very metrosexual thing to do - but he wont wear deoderant - coo coo. :nervous:
 

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but when i found out that he never wears deodorant - and i mean NEVER - he dropped a few rankings as a cool dude in my book.
Really?

That would put him up a few rankings in my book. I don't always wear deodorant either. Believe it or not, pheromones are very real. Not the artificial ones that they sell online, but humans really do produce and sense pheromones. When you sweat, you release pheromones that attract women. It sounds crazy, but there are countless scientific studies that prove it to be true.

edit: Just did a little Google search and found that "McCounaghey admits he hasn't worn a scent or donned deodorant since he was 14-years-old. That's when he discovered his natural odor turned the ladies on."

Seriously, you guys should try not wearing deodorant/cologne. I've been told I smell really good also, when not wearing any scent. In this case, I think this McCounaghey guy is cool. I think there was another member on Sosuave who also talked about this concept before.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I wouldn't say he's my idle though.
Fortunately, I don't think he's anyone's "idle." I believe the word you were trying to use is "idol," which is used in the title of the show, American Idol. Idle means when something is stationary and just stays in one place for a long time; for example, when you keep your car idle.
 

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Really?

That would put him up a few rankings in my book. I don't always wear deodorant either.

ummm. if i dont wear deoderant my pits stink. as do 99% of people out there. id be washing my pits every other hour without deoderant.
 

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There's many scientific studies that prove that particular humans produce hormones that can be great smelling scents.

However, I wouldn't advise anybody to try what Matt is trying here. There's other "scents" that can be produced when sweating that by not wearing deodorant would make the "great smelling scents" a little sour.

I also wouldn't believe everything you hear from actors, meaning actors need to say different things from a P.R. standpoint to stand out from the pack and remain at the top.

Hormones are great smelling scents, but by not wearing deodorant and sweating, it'll be like putting cologne on and not washing your azz...at the end of the day, you still stink.

-DJF
 

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attraction, you wash your *ss though right?
Yeah, I do wash my ass, and other body parts. I do wear deodorant but not as much and as often as I used to. I don't wear cologne any more either.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I heard he and Woody Harrelson share joints and then see who can build up a sweat and smell like pissed asparagus.

They're both fvcking fruity asses.

And for the record, if you don't wear deodorant you are a fvcking idiot. BO is absolutely horrid regardless of whatever way you try to frame it.

There are only two films M.M. was good in: Dazed and Confused as Wooderson and Frailty as the left hand killer.

What the fvck has he done worth a sh!t since? That piece of sh!t flick about being a TOTAL AFC with Kate Hudson (who herself married a potheaded hippie).
 

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what makes him a mans man????????

cause he stinks and doesnt care and still gets beautyful women?

seriously bro please answer why he is a MANS MAN
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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