"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Matthew McCounaghey is a man's man!

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Have you ever met a chick who did not like this guy? I haven't

You gotta admire the guy though. He is not a pretty boy like Leo Dicaprio, Jude Law, Johnny Depp or Paul Walker.

He looks like how a man should look like. Handsome, but does not have a pretty face

He was great in U-571
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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are you gay?

he has good looks and is admired by media, besides acting you think that chump would have some serios game on his own?

i dont think so

total AFC, just pay attention to his interviews!!!
 

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and you been here since 2000

get off the pc for a week and get some pu$$y bro
 

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The title of the thread threw me off a little. But anyway, was he in that movie Sahara? I keep seeing bits of that movie on TV.
 

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paintballz said:
are you gay?

he has good looks and is admired by media, besides acting you think that chump would have some serios game on his own?

i dont think so

total AFC, just pay attention to his interviews!!!
You must be still in high school. It is NOT GAY to admire another mans good looks, it means you are secure with your sexuality.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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build your own kingdom and stop jocking his

have you even read the bible yet?

for the love of god man you sound like a violent celebrity stalker

READ THE BIBLE!:up:
 

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One thing I really admire about the guy is that he's 38 and in amazing physical condition that would put most 20 year olds to shame.

I hear so many people in their late 20s whining about being too old to get in shape, and (especially with me being 30) I find him an inspiration.
 

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he works out a lot and thats cool.

but when i found out that he never wears deoderant - and i mean NEVER - he dropped a few rankings as a cool dude in my book.

i dont get him. he shaves off all body hair - very metrosexual thing to do - but he wont wear deoderant - coo coo. :nervous:
 

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but when i found out that he never wears deodorant - and i mean NEVER - he dropped a few rankings as a cool dude in my book.
Really?

That would put him up a few rankings in my book. I don't always wear deodorant either. Believe it or not, pheromones are very real. Not the artificial ones that they sell online, but humans really do produce and sense pheromones. When you sweat, you release pheromones that attract women. It sounds crazy, but there are countless scientific studies that prove it to be true.

edit: Just did a little Google search and found that "McCounaghey admits he hasn't worn a scent or donned deodorant since he was 14-years-old. That's when he discovered his natural odor turned the ladies on."

Seriously, you guys should try not wearing deodorant/cologne. I've been told I smell really good also, when not wearing any scent. In this case, I think this McCounaghey guy is cool. I think there was another member on Sosuave who also talked about this concept before.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I wouldn't say he's my idle though.
Fortunately, I don't think he's anyone's "idle." I believe the word you were trying to use is "idol," which is used in the title of the show, American Idol. Idle means when something is stationary and just stays in one place for a long time; for example, when you keep your car idle.
 

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Really?

That would put him up a few rankings in my book. I don't always wear deodorant either.

ummm. if i dont wear deoderant my pits stink. as do 99% of people out there. id be washing my pits every other hour without deoderant.
 

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There's many scientific studies that prove that particular humans produce hormones that can be great smelling scents.

However, I wouldn't advise anybody to try what Matt is trying here. There's other "scents" that can be produced when sweating that by not wearing deodorant would make the "great smelling scents" a little sour.

I also wouldn't believe everything you hear from actors, meaning actors need to say different things from a P.R. standpoint to stand out from the pack and remain at the top.

Hormones are great smelling scents, but by not wearing deodorant and sweating, it'll be like putting cologne on and not washing your azz...at the end of the day, you still stink.

-DJF
 

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attraction, you wash your *ss though right?
Yeah, I do wash my ass, and other body parts. I do wear deodorant but not as much and as often as I used to. I don't wear cologne any more either.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I heard he and Woody Harrelson share joints and then see who can build up a sweat and smell like pissed asparagus.

They're both fvcking fruity asses.

And for the record, if you don't wear deodorant you are a fvcking idiot. BO is absolutely horrid regardless of whatever way you try to frame it.

There are only two films M.M. was good in: Dazed and Confused as Wooderson and Frailty as the left hand killer.

What the fvck has he done worth a sh!t since? That piece of sh!t flick about being a TOTAL AFC with Kate Hudson (who herself married a potheaded hippie).
 

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what makes him a mans man????????

cause he stinks and doesnt care and still gets beautyful women?

seriously bro please answer why he is a MANS MAN
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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