"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Boilermaker

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A friend of mine, professor at a Texas University is visiting my school for a sabbatical. He is a 30-something year old, good looking, 5 9'' , and slender, not necessarily athletic.

Upon joking about online dating sites, he decided to get a match.com account, and listed his profession as a "Teacher" (although he is also a researcher), location as "Chicago" and income as 150K (which is only slightly higher than what he makes).

In less than 2 days, he got 30 e-mails , more than 20 winks , and ~ 200 views.
The number is rising exponentially as we speak, and he has never initiated any contact himself.

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A lot of attractive 25-30 year old women are teasing him, asking him questions, and trying to get a drink ... Some of them are overly sexual and most of them are genuinely interested.

It seemed interesting and different from what people generally report about online dating,
so I thought I'd share.

It actually surprised me, as I have never seen an online fury like this for a male account.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Scormus

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Social_Leper said:
Single men who have a good job should join match, play the "I just want to settle down" alpha in beta's clothing game and then clean house.

Can you give me specific pointers on how to play that game on Match?
 

SecondHalf

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Scormus said:
Can you give me specific pointers on how to play that game on Match?
It's not a game.

You just make a good profile, no meatball pictures (shirt off, picture of a fish ...), crack a couple jokes ... you're good to go.

List yourself as "seeking a relationship".
Money for sure is important. I listed the maximum and the responses were from either rich women, gold diggers or total nut jobs. Didn't have many "average" women respond to me.

When I started match, I listed my catch line as "House broken alpha male seeks companion" (which nothing could have been further from the truth) and that really helped the views I think.

Do a couple top tens (one turnons - romantic crap, one turnoffs - make the turnoffs funny).

After that, just let them do the work.

SH
 

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Have him change his income to 30K and see what happens. Higher income is to women what large, perky t&a are to men.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Scormus

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MikeOck said:
Have him change his income to 30K and see what happens. Higher income is to women what large, perky t&a are to men.
Anyone can just lie though? Listing a high income in itself needs to be backed up by visible proof e.g. cars, nice place
 

The Duke

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I was on Match for quite a while and when I increased my income by $25,000 and added 1" to my height I generated a lot more interest.
 

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More lies = more snatch.

Experiment with "$28,000 income, lives with elderly parent and 5 cats", and see how many replies come in. I bet it'll be zero. That online dating shıt is fücked up.
 
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Kailex

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It's strictly all income.

Obviously something to do with looks... but believe me, it's the income.
Them hoees be paper chasin.
 
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