"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Boilermaker

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A friend of mine, professor at a Texas University is visiting my school for a sabbatical. He is a 30-something year old, good looking, 5 9'' , and slender, not necessarily athletic.

Upon joking about online dating sites, he decided to get a match.com account, and listed his profession as a "Teacher" (although he is also a researcher), location as "Chicago" and income as 150K (which is only slightly higher than what he makes).

In less than 2 days, he got 30 e-mails , more than 20 winks , and ~ 200 views.
The number is rising exponentially as we speak, and he has never initiated any contact himself.

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A lot of attractive 25-30 year old women are teasing him, asking him questions, and trying to get a drink ... Some of them are overly sexual and most of them are genuinely interested.

It seemed interesting and different from what people generally report about online dating,
so I thought I'd share.

It actually surprised me, as I have never seen an online fury like this for a male account.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Scormus

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Social_Leper said:
Single men who have a good job should join match, play the "I just want to settle down" alpha in beta's clothing game and then clean house.

Can you give me specific pointers on how to play that game on Match?
 

SecondHalf

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Scormus said:
Can you give me specific pointers on how to play that game on Match?
It's not a game.

You just make a good profile, no meatball pictures (shirt off, picture of a fish ...), crack a couple jokes ... you're good to go.

List yourself as "seeking a relationship".
Money for sure is important. I listed the maximum and the responses were from either rich women, gold diggers or total nut jobs. Didn't have many "average" women respond to me.

When I started match, I listed my catch line as "House broken alpha male seeks companion" (which nothing could have been further from the truth) and that really helped the views I think.

Do a couple top tens (one turnons - romantic crap, one turnoffs - make the turnoffs funny).

After that, just let them do the work.

SH
 

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Have him change his income to 30K and see what happens. Higher income is to women what large, perky t&a are to men.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Scormus

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But

MikeOck said:
Have him change his income to 30K and see what happens. Higher income is to women what large, perky t&a are to men.
Anyone can just lie though? Listing a high income in itself needs to be backed up by visible proof e.g. cars, nice place
 

The Duke

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I was on Match for quite a while and when I increased my income by $25,000 and added 1" to my height I generated a lot more interest.
 

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More lies = more snatch.

Experiment with "$28,000 income, lives with elderly parent and 5 cats", and see how many replies come in. I bet it'll be zero. That online dating shıt is fücked up.
 
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Kailex

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It's strictly all income.

Obviously something to do with looks... but believe me, it's the income.
Them hoees be paper chasin.
 
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