"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Masturbation question

Jenkies

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I've read a few posts on this board saying that not masturbating will improve your confidence and drive to get women yada yada yada. Is this actually true though? I've always been a pretty horny guy, usually beat it like once every other day on average but I'm always thinkin about sex. It's now been 5 days since i jerked it cause I'm making a conscious effort to see how long I can go without doing it, and I'm starting to go insane from the urge to **** something. I'm just not seeing what benefits I can get from this at this point.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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RAFCbearfilm

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That means that it is working...Ha! Instead of jerking yourself off, yuo take that desire and energy to find a woman to do it for you! Get it now?
 

OddManOut85

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yeah.im wondering the same thing.ive been trying not to,but sometimes i give in lol.but now i am really trying not too to spank it.so yeah,does it increase confidence,drive,etc? cause if it does,i feel im in for some more painful self revelation.
 

Cod3r

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Wat i've learned is that overall it decreases your sexual drive, but you'll experience random days where it'll be VERY strong, but on most days its actually not bad at all, ur drive actually will seem more chilled...


-Cod3r
 

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If you really want some overdrived energy, start jacking off but DO NOT Ejaculate. Youll be walking around the entire day as if your ass is on fire.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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