"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Masturbation question

Jenkies

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I've read a few posts on this board saying that not masturbating will improve your confidence and drive to get women yada yada yada. Is this actually true though? I've always been a pretty horny guy, usually beat it like once every other day on average but I'm always thinkin about sex. It's now been 5 days since i jerked it cause I'm making a conscious effort to see how long I can go without doing it, and I'm starting to go insane from the urge to **** something. I'm just not seeing what benefits I can get from this at this point.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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RAFCbearfilm

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That means that it is working...Ha! Instead of jerking yourself off, yuo take that desire and energy to find a woman to do it for you! Get it now?
 

OddManOut85

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yeah.im wondering the same thing.ive been trying not to,but sometimes i give in lol.but now i am really trying not too to spank it.so yeah,does it increase confidence,drive,etc? cause if it does,i feel im in for some more painful self revelation.
 

Cod3r

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Wat i've learned is that overall it decreases your sexual drive, but you'll experience random days where it'll be VERY strong, but on most days its actually not bad at all, ur drive actually will seem more chilled...


-Cod3r
 

SexinEar

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If you really want some overdrived energy, start jacking off but DO NOT Ejaculate. Youll be walking around the entire day as if your ass is on fire.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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